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I’m open to the possibility that it’s just me being more aware/sensitive to how people are driving around me too. And I’m not necessarily talking about drivers I have to interact with myself but just seeing what people are doing in general.

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[-] nutcase2690@lemmy.dbzer0.com 3 points 13 hours ago

The thing that is pissing me off recently is that when people stop at a light with wayy too much room in between their car and the one in front of them. I think it is a byproduct of many drivers not being able to visualize how large their car is Like seriously, most people leave enough room to fit an extra car or two at the stopped light. Imo it contributes heavily to how many cars can actually pass at a green light, and it makes traffic so much worse.

[-] Sabata11792@ani.social 1 points 12 hours ago

I don't trust the ass hole behind me to use there breaks and I'm liable if you push me into them.

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[-] NABDad@lemmy.world 0 points 10 hours ago

Counterpoint:

The last time I was rear-ended, I was in stop-and-go traffic going uphill. Every time I moved a few feet and stopped, the car behind me would pull right up to within a few inches of my bumper. It was driving me crazy.

Sure enough, the person behind him hit him, then he hit me.

The rule from the book when I was teaching my kids to drive was: You're supposed to stop when you can still see the where the rear wheels of the car in front of you touch the street. If your good obstructs the view, you're too close. If you can see street between your car and their tires, you're too far.

[-] nutcase2690@lemmy.dbzer0.com 1 points 5 hours ago* (last edited 5 hours ago)

Few inches is certainly too close-- I am not saying to go until you can see the white of the driver's eyes in the rear view mirror, but a whole two car lengths is too much at a stop light

Granted, if you are stopping following the rules of the book and you are in a car with one of those absurdly high hoods (to the point where almost a dozen children can sit in front of your car and you can't see them), then it is still a huge distance.

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