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submitted 4 days ago by Littlesad@lemmy.world to c/adhd@lemmy.world

Hi, can someone please tell me where I can legally get an euthanasia appointment for having diagnosed ADHD and undiagnosed autism?

I know it's better to get support than to end my life but there is no support anywhere. I have tried to get support in my home country Australia but there's no accommodations for somebody like me, and I have faced a lot of violence from the justice system there and I am scared to return.

My ADHD/ autism has ruined my life. I'm living off savings overseas and am trying really hard to find a job but it's not possible, I'm too disabled. I will keep trying until I run out of money. But after that I don't know what I will do. I don't want to die but I don't think there's any other choice. But I don't want to have to kill myself on my own when the time comes. Please, I really want the chance to die with dignity if I do not have the means to support myself anymore. I need to plan in advance to know how much money I need for getting euthanasia.

Please someone can you tell me what the steps are? I really have tried to find support but there isn't any that I can find to support myself so I don't have a choice and I really don't want to have to kill myself on my own.

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[-] RQG@lemmy.world 2 points 4 days ago

Having been at mental rock bottom myself I'll spare you the uplifting words. You won't feel them. I got out of that shit using logic and problem solving skills and a ton of help.

I don't think from what you wrote that you really have tried all available resources and possibilities to solve your problems.

There is usually help available from charities and the like to support you with applying for social security benefits and aid. Those people know that stuff well. Have you applied for disability? Mental counts. There is lots of stuff you can do that you don't know about.

Don't be too proud to get help from anyone you know. Family, friends etc. Don't be overly dramatic but also don't hide your problems.

I think before you consider ending your life you might as well try all the other options. Because that option is rather irreversible. You don't see a way out right now. But the final option doesn't go away. You say you think you'll end up homeless. Now you aren't. So try a few things now while it isn't too late.

And while depressed you never think anything works. The depressed emotional state makes you very much not objective. You twist everything into a bad light. Keep trying to find solutions and seeking help. Might still work. Did for me. I didn't believe it would but I tried anyway.

[-] Littlesad@lemmy.world 1 points 4 days ago

I have tried, I can't find a charity that will help me because this isn't something that is written in their agenda. Sadly there is no existing charity that helps ADHD/ autistic people with my problems. I have gone to doctors but they don't seem me to be disabled enough. I have also talked to friends who are actually on disability support in Australia and the support is so limited, there's really not much point in trying. There's a lot of hoops to jump through to qualify, and I'm better off using that energy to find work.

You don't know anything about my family situation. I can't ask money from them. Nor can I ask my friends for money because I'm not going to stoop that low. My friends have already tried to help me as much as they can. I've lost friends because I've been too much. Some came to help me when I didn't ask for it and because it was too much for them, they ghosted me. My friends are not mental health professionals or social workers. I can't put the burden of helping a disabled person like myself on them. But you know what mental health professionals and social workers have not been trained on how to deal with people like me either. So yea there has been no options for me.

If the system has worked for you and helped you when you were at your lowest that's great but it hasn't worked for me

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