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The worst part about things like this is when you try to have a conversation like this with your average friend/coworker/acquaintance/etc. they're all like, "calm down; you're overreacting". I'm like, "no, fuck you; you're underreacting! People DIED."
Has anyone else over the age of 35 notice a major shift the past couple of decades regarding how little people care about literally anything? It's like humanity as a whole have turned into emotional zombies. You can't even say hi to strangers in public anymore. They just stare at you like, "who are you and why the fuck are you talking to me"? It's so bizarre compared to how people used to be in the 90s and 2000s. Nobody even wants to make eye contact with anyone anymore, let alone wave as you pass each other down the street. Not unless you're someone they know.
It's as if people forgot how to communicate with each other outside of the internet... Is it just me? Maybe I just have a bitchy resting face. IDK. But anyway this YT Short perfectly exemplifies exactly want I mean. (Piped link)
This is by far the most crazy transition that has happened in my lifetime. And I remember being asked “smoking or non smoking?”
Worst part is the response I've gotten from this. "It was just some old people and those that would have died anyway from something else."
Until it impacts them personally, yes. Knew someone who thought covid was a common cold (had relatives with mild symptoms of any), then they caught it and it rocked them. Suddenly it wasn't anything to make fun of anymore. If they didn't have bad symptoms, they still wouldn't care.
Definitely not just you.
This experience has permanently damaged my patience for alleged "human beings". I'm with you on this, on how much it sucked, because my dad was once if those old people. This fucking plague killed him when he could've had at least a decade more to enjoy in life... My mother had just had a stroke and she needed him more than ever right when he got taken away. Now, every time I ever hear about someone dying, the math happens automatically in the back of my mind before I even get to recognize that it's happening:
Was the person who died at least as good a person as my father?
Because if not, fuck em.
I have no patience for the continued existence of anyone who isn't at least as kind, patient, generous, or warm as him. Which means VERY NEARLY every single fucking Republican. If they all died i would feel NOTHING. not even relief. But especially not grief. THEY DID THIS. I have nothing for them but revulsion. There is now a stark cutoff in my perception beyond which absolutely NOTHING matters. Only things that are better than that threshold are worth while. Literally everything else is beneath my attention.
Anything that is not at least going well enough, beneficially enough, to exist above that threshold, i have no time for. No room for in my perceptual horizon. I am one bad week from writing off all of existence and going out with maximal sabotage.
My completely unrequested advice: try your best to stay or become the person that those you look up to (including your departed father) would be happy with you becoming. If you feel like you're overly frustrated and about to have a breakdown, do whatever you can to bring yourself back.
If that means you need to step away and take a vacation into a yurt or cabin in the woods with a Nintendo DS or a friend: do it. Therapy also helps if your insurance can afford it, and if you find the right therapist (most allow you to have a call to assess good fit).
Hang in there.
What if doing that for decades has resulted in nothing?
Unfortunately society feels like it's headed to another historical event where the classes have to remind each other what the deal was, likely with violence.
idk about you but i'm heavily autistic
So am I but I still force myself do it because I don't want everyone to think I'm an asshole.
valid
i long ago stopped masking for the comfort of neurotypicals. but to each their own
What a beautifully ableist take.
How'd
Work out for any minority group in history?
Spoiler: not well.
I think being overexposed to so many issues around the world is making people numb - especially when they don't know what to do about it.
(There may be other factors - for example, less densely populated areas being more open because there's more time per person to go around or something like that - but I think overexposure is a big bit of it).
We need more ways to act rather than just react.
For example, here's a long Covid research fundraiser link
Today I saw someone on my morning walk, he said hi, I said hi back, and then he reacted like I hadn't responded and got pissed off at me ("I guess its NOT a good morning, then!"). Every single human interaction outside my intimate circle makes me feel horrible. This guy just chose not to hold up his part of the bargain. It's like he chose to react badly, no matter what I actually did.
we're turning into homogenised soup. Endless parade of milquetoast pillows with beige opinions and the depth of a puddle. Where is your passion. Where is your rage. "omg u so confrontational" I am human. if you cannot deal with a normal range of human emotions you are fucked
You're so negative is what I constantly got from my ex wife. Yeah, the world is fucked, and I feel the need to talk about it.