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Many international fans visiting the US for the World Cup have become frustrated by the culture of tipping servers, telling the BBC that tipping fatigue has set in.

England supporter Geoff Pryor said he understood tipping for good service, but he found it "weird" when buying a bottle of water and "they try to get a tip for doing nothing".

In the US, staff at some restaurants and bars are paid just over $2 (£1.50) an hour, and they expect customers to tip about 20% of the total cost of the bill so they can earn a living.

Frustrations have also been shared by hospitality staff, with one bar owner telling the BBC that many World Cup tourists have been bad tippers.

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[-] SnuffyThePunk@lemmy.world 10 points 3 weeks ago

I never tip, unless i received exceptional service.

Then again i only eat out at venues where I pay up front or self serve, or in places so posch - I actually WANT to tip the staff for providing an outstanding experience.

On the rare occation I am in a venue where tipping is expected and service and experience are not phenomenal I do not tip and happily send any staff to fuck right off if approached - that sort of establishment SHOULD go under.

[-] YtA4QCam2A9j7EfTgHrH@infosec.pub 8 points 3 weeks ago

You suck for not tipping people who are paid in tips.

[-] patruelis@lemmy.world 14 points 3 weeks ago

Yeah, pay a livable salary and fuck off with begging for money.

[-] axexrx@lemmy.world 3 points 3 weeks ago

Tell that to the owner and not the staff.

[-] patruelis@lemmy.world 6 points 3 weeks ago

It is not the owner's fault, it is everyone as a nation, accepting the practice and blaming customers.

[-] zqps@sh.itjust.works 3 points 3 weeks ago

It's very much also the owners. Outsourcing your staff's salaries to the customer while being able to advertise cheaper prices is an incredible deal for them while dropping all of the responsibility on the customers.

[-] axexrx@lemmy.world 1 points 3 weeks ago

The customers end up paying the extra however you slice it. Be it tips, a non optional gratuity, or baked into the price. Most restaurant margins are surprisingly low, its not like theyre being greedy and hoarding the 'extra' money that would otherwise go to servers salary.

The tip passing direct from the customer to the staff prevents it from being taxed 2x, (both sales and income dont get charged on tips) you'd be adding an extra 10% or more on top of the 20% if you moved to to a baked in cost.

[-] reev@sh.itjust.works 2 points 3 weeks ago

You guys are always so worried about your taxes. With the current administration I can see why, I guess. We're not asking to not pay what we owe, we're just asking that what we owe be transparent, like in a civilised country.

[-] YtA4QCam2A9j7EfTgHrH@infosec.pub 1 points 3 weeks ago

You are only harming workers and are an asshole if you withhold tips.

[-] Redfugee@lemmy.world 12 points 3 weeks ago

Why do you give the employer a pass and blame the customer?

[-] YtA4QCam2A9j7EfTgHrH@infosec.pub 1 points 3 weeks ago

I don’t get the employer a pass. But I live in a reality of tipped wages and have had a job like that before. I have solidarity with those workers by helping the make a livelihood. Me not tipping only benefits me and the owner. Not the laborer. It is immoral to withhold the money earned

[-] Redfugee@lemmy.world 1 points 3 weeks ago

The employer is the one withholding the money earned, the customer is simply paying the price that is advertised. The employer is the one that is exploiting the cheap labor, and if the labor looks to the customer to fix it it's not going to work out.

[-] YtA4QCam2A9j7EfTgHrH@infosec.pub 1 points 3 weeks ago

You fight the system by fighting the system, not punishing people who are even more vulnerable to the cruelty of the system.

[-] Redfugee@lemmy.world 1 points 3 weeks ago

Employers paying shitty wages are punishing workers, this is the source of your complaint. If workers got a fair wage to begin with, you wouldn't give a shit about tipping. But employers pay a shit wage and have successfully got people like you to blame and shame customers instead of them. If you think this will resolve by arguing with the customers that aren't subsiding the wages, well, good luck with that.

[-] YtA4QCam2A9j7EfTgHrH@infosec.pub 1 points 3 weeks ago

Cool story. Good way to have solidarity with workers

[-] Redfugee@lemmy.world 1 points 3 weeks ago

I support workers getting a fair wage, full stop. Nice try pointing the blame away from employers who pay shit wages, they definitely need the focus off of them to perpetuate this system.

[-] YtA4QCam2A9j7EfTgHrH@infosec.pub 1 points 3 weeks ago

Your support isn’t helping the people who are serving you if they can’t eat while you are working on legislation.

[-] Redfugee@lemmy.world 1 points 3 weeks ago

I'm not working on any legislation. I'm only trying to point out who is causing this pain so you can consider redirecting your anger to the right place. FWIW I do tip every single time but I do honestly wonder if I am just helping to perpetuate an unfair system.

[-] BlindPenguin@lemmy.world 12 points 3 weeks ago

Pay your staff properly

[-] smeenz@lemmy.nz 8 points 3 weeks ago* (last edited 3 weeks ago)

No, you suck for accepting and perpetuating a culture where it is necessary. Do the right thing and refuse to go along with it. Insist that all staff are paid livable wages. Petition your state to force the issue if necessary.

[-] YtA4QCam2A9j7EfTgHrH@infosec.pub 1 points 3 weeks ago

Yes because me not tipping is going to end the system. Not tipping only benefits me and the owner. The staff is fucked. Only assholes think their individual lack of tipping with change a system. Systematic change requires a system to change.

[-] Tarambor@lemmy.world 4 points 3 weeks ago

You suck for living in a nation that allows employers to use tips to make up a half decent wage.

[-] YtA4QCam2A9j7EfTgHrH@infosec.pub 1 points 3 weeks ago

Yes I have a choice in that matter. I live in a reality of tipped wages and I have solidarity with the people who labor under it

[-] BlindPenguin@lemmy.world 1 points 3 weeks ago

That's not solidarity in terms of labour. It's just accepting the status quo, while doing a lip service to the people affected. If you really want to show solidarity, join a union and participate in collective action to improve the working conditions. The more people a union has, the stronger it can get. Worker rights in Europe didn't come out of the good hearts of politicians or companies.

[-] YtA4QCam2A9j7EfTgHrH@infosec.pub 1 points 3 weeks ago

You fight the system by fighting the system, not punishing people who are even more vulnerable to the cruelty of the system.

[-] BlindPenguin@lemmy.world 1 points 3 weeks ago
[-] YtA4QCam2A9j7EfTgHrH@infosec.pub 1 points 3 weeks ago

I’m literally in the IWW

[-] spacegoat@lemmy.world 4 points 3 weeks ago
[-] YtA4QCam2A9j7EfTgHrH@infosec.pub 1 points 3 weeks ago

I have solidarity with the people who labor under the system.

[-] sos242@thelemmy.club 3 points 3 weeks ago

I have only read the comments here. I see employers are not paying minimum wages is the problem here.

If minimum wages were paid tipping or not tipping is a question of good service and appreciation and not a question of survival.

Place the blame on the business owners who refuse to pay fair wages to employees. This is a criminal act and customer not tipping is just a question of social politeness.

[-] Alcoholicorn@mander.xyz 1 points 3 weeks ago

Minimum wage isn't enough to live off of in any city.

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