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this post was submitted on 29 May 2026
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For years I lived right by the sea. I had plenty of alcohol and medications. the prevailing currents would've swept my body across the border into a hostile country, where no one who found it would've cared. I don't live to spare anyone else's feelings, not least those who would mourn me as dead for living the life I want to live. I live because I deserve it, I deserve my family's respect and care while we're both here, and I don't need anyone else's shame.
To live on solely for obligation and guilt isn't living at all, and anyone who wishes that on someone else just so they can remain a half-dead trophy they can congratulate themselves for "saving" can eat shit. If you're reading this and you need to hear something, keep going. Keep trying. We live in an insane world; sometimes you have to try the same thing over and over so you can get different results. Live another day and see what happens. Not for anyone else, but because it's a shame to miss out on this wild a ride.
This post honestly just pisses me off. Your life is worth living. Not your parents' child's life. Yours.
I survived suicide. As a side effect, the action showed me who my real friends were. People started to finally pay the fuck attention to me and my struggles. Turns out I had a rare physical disease that was making it very difficult to participate in society not just as dude, but as a whole. As many have said, don't do it, I still have stomach issues from the wombo combo of meds I took to do the deed. I was lucky. If you ever feel like no one loves ya or that your are nothing. Just poof for a week to somewhere they can't reach you and where you are safe. Don't hurt yourself. Check to see how many reach out to you. If the number is low or zero, instead of saying: "see, no one loves me." Go "damn, these fucks don't give a damn about me, let's find someone who will!"
It's insane, but: you don't die, you learn who loves you, and you have your health.
Go forth and fight the demons. As long as you are fighting them others will assit.
That is certainly some experience, and a good life lesson. I just want to remark, if my best friends disappeared for a week, I would assume they just wanted to disappear for a week, and had their reasons to not tell me. Doesn't mean I don't care about them.
I think this is less about guilting the victim and more about reminding them that people care about them. The assumption is that those who take their own lives feel like no one cares for/loves them.
Unfortunately, this take often reads like conservative pundits that only "care" about fetuses until they're born, at which point they're considered a drain on society.
A lot of the quotes people repeat when trying to help someone ends up backfiring. You can't just repeat plattitudes. People suffering from mental illness aren't stupid or deaf, they've already heard the lines before. Mimicry doesn't help.
The only generalized thing I can recommend people to say when trying to help someone with mental issues is to just ask: "What do you need?". If they need space, give it. If they need to talk, listen. If they need something else, be honest about whether that's in your ability to help with.
Another important thing to note is to not view them as something that needs to be fixed. And you need to be very honest with yourself about that. Most people will try to "help" because it makes them feel better, not the person they're trying to help.
everyone cares about when you're dead