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Did you have any recently? How recent? What was it?

What was your first gender euphoria? What was it like? Did you know what it was at the time?

(just looking for more conversation, sometimes it's a bit too quiet here.)

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[-] Blahaj_Blast 18 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

I recently painted my toenails and I think it's one of my first noticeable (probable) euphorias. I did once a couple days ago, but didn't like the color, but then replaced it with a better (but still not not my favorite l, but not far off) and while I don't like how my stupid hobbit feet look, I do like seeing the color on my toes, and love when I remember it throughout the day It's like,

ha ha I have pretty toes and no one knows!

And it's like a fun secret that I have, that makes me feel a little good, when I remember..

Its complicated. I mostly like the color, but my feet 🤢

[-] RedQuestionAsker2@hexbear.net 7 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

Painting my nails was one of those things early on that was an immediate hit for me.

It's been years now and I still feel like you do when I see them after I've forgotten.

I hope you can hold onto it, too~

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