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Feeling conflicted (skirts) (lemmy.zip)
submitted 4 days ago by SkyeMors@lemmy.zip to c/mtf
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So I'm 30mtf (generally- on meds for a bit now, gender is confusing), and I'm into clothing and style, comfort and stuff- so I figured that maybe skirts would be great! So I ordered two- a short-ish one and a long-ish one, in case one doesn't feel right.

But of course, the short one arrived first. It's a pleated black tennis skirt, so it's a little rigid and has a (skort? shorts but under the skirt for modesty).... and.... not for me (yet?), sadly. I've worn jeans and sweatpants and shorts and such that I as a guy could just... wear, normally. So anyway, tried it on, it's a fine fit, but.... my ass has never felt so exposed, I'mma be honest. And it wasn't even, it's just the lack of tightness just under the buttocks that skirts just don't do, making it feel super weird for me even though it was a mostly modest length of skirt. Hopefully the longer one (with belt loops!) feels better- it's about ankle-length by my estimate, and flowy and.... I think it's teal? I forget. It gets here in a week or so. Maybe eventually I'll be able to wear it around the house, but... ah, I bromode too much to try being cute or wear anything cute in public (yet).

so thanks for coming and reading me ramble about my new skirt, hope it was entertaining enough for a few minutes :3

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[-] brookedSmile 10 points 4 days ago

We love rambling here!

If you feel really exposed, especially in really short skirts, you can always wear legging shorts or something like that under it. Or, if youve ever heard of rompers(?), you can get romper style skirts. My shortest skirt is like that.

Rompers are a dress/skirt style where instead of it being fully open it has legholes and extra fabric to make kinda like their own shorts in them. Theyre great for not feeling wide open like that!

Only problem is, if you get a romper dress, you have to take the whole thing off basically to BIO but hey thats life for us girls 😂

[-] SkyeMors@lemmy.zip 4 points 4 days ago

Hmm, looked up rompers, and perhaps, though the shorts in the skirt are roughly the same tightness and roughly the same coverage. Gonna add it to the list of stuff to browse, thanks!

[-] brookedSmile 2 points 3 days ago

For the skirt ones yeah, the main thing i like is having coverage in between legs ❤️

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