Washing & drying fem clothes in secret (sh.itjust.works)

submitted 1 week ago by bootleg@sh.itjust.works to c/mtf

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Hi! I'm planning on purchasing some feminine clothes to see how I feel in them, but I still need a way to wash and dry them unnoticed as I'm still closeted & living with my parents.

For the drying part: my room has a lock which my mom doesn't mind me using, so I can keep clothes out in the open in my room while drying, but I also can't really buy something like a drying rack because it would lead to too many questions.

For the washing part: I know that the washing machine is an option but would rather just hand-wash, because our washing machine is really loud and I would have to find a time in which no one was home to use it. We don't have a tub though, so I wanted to ask how effective washing with running water would be instead.

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[-] anothercatgirl 3 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago)

here's a tip from a redditor how they wash and dry embarrassing clothes: https://old.rxddit.com/r/kigurumi/comments/1qheco6/my_coming_out_story/ , rehosted video so u don't need to visit reddit:

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this embed isn't working on some apps pls lmk if the embed plays a video for u.

[-] bootleg@sh.itjust.works 2 points 1 week ago

Thank you!

this post was submitted on 01 Apr 2026

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