submitted 1 month ago by may_be@thelemmy.club to c/lesbians

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It’d make sense why I only date women and enbies and why I only attract them, and why men don’t really appeal to me but most people I know are straight so I was convinced I “needed” a man and adopted their attitude.

The only people I really find attractive are nonbinary people and women

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[-] TheLeadenSea@sh.itjust.works 9 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago)

Do you mean feminine nonbinary people? Because if you're attracted to masc/androgynous nonbinary people that would be a bit confusing in this context :p

[-] may_be@thelemmy.club 7 points 1 month ago

Huh, maybe I am bi then

[-] Gladaed@feddit.org 7 points 1 month ago

While I agree that this would make them not a straight gay, you can be attracted to women and that guy in particular, too. If sexuality is a spectrum you don't need to be a gold star lesbian to be a real lesbian.

If you are attracted to fembies and enbies and think of them as woman that are different that would be problematic.

[-] may_be@thelemmy.club 4 points 1 month ago

Yeah, my BF is nonbinary and masc but he said I could still be a lesbian as he’s enby

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