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[-] rockerface@lemmy.cafe 36 points 3 days ago

"Intelligence" isn't about knowing a lot of stuff or even having experience. It's about being able to use your knowledge and experience to solve problems. So, by that logic, emotional intelligence means a skill of solving problems pertaining to emotions.

[-] paul@lemmy.org 10 points 3 days ago

I'd say emotional intelligence is understanding why you feel a certain way and not allowing the automatic reaction to those feelings to be the default reaction.

Like if something makes you angry, instead of going crazy, you take a deep breath and address it calmly. It's primarily emotional regulation.

I mean you're both saying the same thing lol

[-] rockerface@lemmy.cafe 6 points 2 days ago

I've also heard the term applied to understanding why other people feel a certain way and taking steps to mitigate negative emotional feedback. It's not just being able to control your own emotions.

[-] Valmond@lemmy.dbzer0.com 3 points 3 days ago

Smart emotions if you'd like.

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