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What's the most common issue you see in the dating pool?
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Part of the problem is that we don't have many elders in the community to model proper behaviour. They were murdered. Murdered by inaction on the AIDS crisis, by the gay panic defence, by lack of access to healthcare. The average new person in the community is a 20 year old getting advice on proper behaviour from other 20 year olds. Now that's great for validating their gender identity, but it's not so good for teaching respect in a relationship. We've got a bunch of traumatised kids making horrible mistakes and doubling down on them.