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[-] southsamurai@sh.itjust.works 3 points 1 day ago

Imo, that's the perfect reason to delete a post. Lemmy and piefed don't yet have a way to temporarily turn them off, so deleting just makes sense.

Mind you, anyone can delete any post they make for any reason, I'm just saying that being overwhelmed is a damn good one.

Here's hoping you recover from the response flood and feel comfy enough to post again later :)

[-] SpaceBunnie@piefed.social 3 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

thamnqueue 🙏✨ this is really nice for me to read rn, really apreciate it.

it was easy to read all the glazing and sweet compliments, but im pretty weird and i was not sure how to explain myself or respond to certain other comments.

i also have trauma related to being bullied by cishet guys and i was having unreasonable strong reactions to commemts that were saying they were from cishet guys. I want to believe in allies and i dont want to judge people but i am definately pretty damaged and messy and was scared of embaressing myself or being unhinged and making people hate me.

[-] southsamurai@sh.itjust.works 3 points 1 day ago

I totally get it.

Even thirty years on, I carry some trauma from my teenage years. You just stick to your pace, your comfort levels. The rest of us can be patient as you grow and bloom.

[-] SpaceBunnie@piefed.social 3 points 1 day ago

this is so nice🙏😭 i am not used to kindness like this in an internet space💚🍓✨

[-] southsamurai@sh.itjust.works 4 points 1 day ago

Fortunately, the blahaj instances are full of kindness and joy and support. I'm always so happy they exist.

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