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Why wouldn’t you want to get married
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Here's something you can read:
https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC7452000/
For what it's worth, what I've always read was that both men and women live longer if married, but the increase in lifespan is bigger for men than women.
Personally, I don't think my wife would be better off. She's disabled and can't work. She basically got fucked over by genetics.
While it was nowhere near as bad as it is now when she was in her 20's and 30's, the only times she was actually symptom free was when she was pregnant.