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I'm a conservative. I don't mind the liberal stuff here. It's good to learn the other side, but I don't want a liberal echo chamber. I'd like to be more politically balanced in the fediverse. Is there any way I can do that?

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[-] duckington@lemmy.world 168 points 1 year ago

Unfortunately most of the more “conservative” instances became highly toxic and so most other instances have defederated with them.

[-] euphoria@kbin.social 114 points 1 year ago

funny how every time conservatives group up, their communities become so toxic, full of hate and conspiracies, that people have no choice but to cut ties lol

[-] mayo@lemmy.world 14 points 1 year ago

It's because their political leader at the moment is a populist. They can't help but be a bunch of cunts. Monkey see money do kind of thing.

[-] phillaholic@lemm.ee 9 points 1 year ago

Here’s an unpopular opinion. I saw a lot of the same elements in the Bernie crowd. Not for taking peoples rights or anything illegal like that mind you, but they were very quick to want to ignore the rules during the primary to throw out the choice of the Democratic majority in order to have Bernie win over Hillary. To this day I still hear conspiracy theory talking points about how Bernie really won, or how he was winning the real polls, etc. it’s the same populist rhetoric and it’s dangerous.

[-] CountZero@lemmy.world 21 points 1 year ago

Yeah, but how often did Bernie himself repeat those conspiracy theories? Did he ever try to violently overturn the Democratic primary results? Every popular person has some shitty supporters, so you can't just judge people based on their supporters.

[-] phillaholic@lemm.ee 2 points 1 year ago

Bernie never said anything to my knowledge, which is why I said the Bernie Crowd. It was limited to a chunk of his fan base that discussed ignoring primary results and awarding delegates to Bernie. Violent or Non-Violent wasn't the point. The rules were set before the primary, and Bernie lost. Any attempt at discussion of anything regarding overturning that result is overturning democracy. That was scary to read. You don't think that would ever turn into a coup attempt, but It's enough to have made me uncomfortable.

I only blame Bernie as much as his populist rhetoric misleads people. Nothing actually happened, and I don't believe he would have stood for it if it did.

[-] CountZero@lemmy.world 8 points 1 year ago

Yeah, but how often did Bernie himself repeat those conspiracy theories? Did he ever try to violently overturn the Democratic primary results? Every popular person has some shitty supporters, so you can't just judge people based on their supporters.

[-] src@lemmy.ml 12 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

Have you seen all the comments on this thread?

Instead of answering the OPs question, 100+ people are just bashing him for thinking differently, saying stuff like "Well, why are you conservative in the first place? Conservatism is so stupid! People on the right are evil, monsters, etc."

This left wing echo chamber is already very hateful and against any differing opinions.

[-] retrieval4558@mander.xyz 16 points 1 year ago

It's not "thinking differently" it's "the beliefs necessary to maintain that political stance are stupid and cruel".

[-] Snowman44@lemmy.world 5 points 1 year ago

Not every conservative is a racist nazi. Some of us just want the government to stick to doing what's in the constitution.

[-] Falmarri@lemmy.world 12 points 1 year ago

So then how can you possibly agree with the right? Is banning books in the Constitution?

[-] Vendetta9076@sh.itjust.works 7 points 1 year ago

Westerners, especially Americans, have a really really hard time believing that you can be socially one thing and governmentally/economically another. For instance Im radically socially leftist but economically libertarian.

Because Americans have been force fed the lie that you have to pick one size fits all, they assume that every conservative is also socially conservative. Which, in the case of America, means you support the wild anti lgbt/anti abortion legislation.

[-] duckington@lemmy.world 10 points 1 year ago

I agree. The way I worded my comment was very intentional to not bash conservatism. I don’t consider myself one but I thought OP’s question was pretty respectful and I do find it unfortunate that he doesn’t have a community on here that isn’t extremely radicalized.

[-] src@lemmy.ml 4 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

Yeah, it's a shame that people can't be more civil and respectful to each other.

[-] randomname01@feddit.nl 34 points 1 year ago

Instantly became toxic? I’m shocked, shocked I say!

[-] rist097@lemmy.world 25 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

I think they would be more moderate if more moderate people would have opportunity to participate. Right now all of the non left instances or communities get too quickly defederated and deleted, so moderate people who would normally participate dont want to create na account on a completely defederated instance. The only thing you are left of there are some crazies.

The only way I heard of conservative communities here is from a post that is asking for defederation or deletion

[-] Jimbo@yiffit.net 76 points 1 year ago

Well, the conservatives in those communities could try being less horrible pieces of shit and not bring hate to minority spaces, but that's probably too much to ask

[-] Puppy@kbin.social 43 points 1 year ago

Remember when being conservative meant you wanted lower tax?

Now it's a competition to see who's going to say the most toxic stuff and who can become the biggest piece of trash a human being can be

"I LOVE RUSSIA TRUMP IS MY GOD FUCK LGBTS ALL TRANS ARE PEDOPHILE SOROS BILL GATES WOKE WOKE WOKE WOKE WOKE WOKE WOKE WOKE FAUCI OBAMA BUT HER EMAILS BUT HIS LAPTOPS BUD LITE WOKE WOKE"

like holy shit, calm down a bit...

[-] irmoz@reddthat.com 10 points 1 year ago

Conservatism has always been that

[-] Vendetta9076@sh.itjust.works 4 points 1 year ago

In America maybe, although I doubt that.

[-] mayo@lemmy.world 8 points 1 year ago

That was like 15 years ago as I remember it. Being a conservative was about being a fiscal responsibility, and there was an expectation that we were all moving in the same direction socially. Now it's all messed up.

[-] retrieval4558@mander.xyz 11 points 1 year ago

It's been the same since the Nixon era, they're just more mask off about it now.

[-] Clent@lemmy.world 9 points 1 year ago

Give hate a chance!

[-] euphoria@kbin.social 39 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

conservative spaces shouldn't need moderates to balance out their toxicity and crazy when left on their own, they simply shouldn't be toxic and crazy. why do they need their hand held? it gets defederated quickly because THEY always quickly turn their spaces into pure hate, and they choose to spread that. that's on them, not us.

[-] filthyhookerspit@kbin.social 24 points 1 year ago

The ideology is built in hate so it's no surprise this happens to them

[-] _thisdot@infosec.pub 1 points 1 year ago

It’s funny. What is happening here is “hate” towards conservatives!

And no, conservatism is not built upon hate. There has to be a left, there has to be a right. And the absence of either would drive us to dictatorship (lack of left wing) or anarchy (lack of right wing)

[-] qevlarr@lemmy.world 2 points 1 year ago

Oh no, anarchy

... Uh so no dominance hierarchies, where no one rules over another? Yeah, don't threaten me with a good time

[-] FelipeFelop@discuss.online 6 points 1 year ago

I get what you’re saying. There’s a mindset in the fediverse that everyone on an instance is responsible for it. Even if the bad actors join later. The instance gets defederated but as a user it can be really hard to know if your instance is defederated.

It’s a deeply unpopular opinion and anyone who suggests that federation is simultaneously a huge advance and a big problem seems to get downvoted.

You’re right, ultimately instead of being exposed to a range of views some of which are challenging we’ll end up in little echo chambers.

We need more moderation and less defederation.

[-] phillaholic@lemm.ee 13 points 1 year ago

I’m fine being in an echo chamber that Trans people deserve human rights. That’s a hill I’m willing to die on. If you disagree, you can stay out of my bubble, I’m not negotiating this point.

[-] _thisdot@infosec.pub 5 points 1 year ago

This. If they identify as humans, they deserve human rights

[-] FelipeFelop@discuss.online 5 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

I haven’t mentioned anything about Trans people at all ? There’s nothing to negotiate and I don’t disagree that trans people have a right to be treated with respect and have their rights respected.

[-] phillaholic@lemm.ee 6 points 1 year ago

It's the hot topic of the moment for conservatives, particularly the ones that are getting banned from public sites. Other than that, it's all culture war shit like abortion, immigration, border walls, etc that all go into xenophobia, misogamy, racism, antisemitism etc. I haven't seen any real conservative ideas in a decade. Now it's all a grift. You either have a old idea of what conservative is or just aren't saying it out loud. Even when Republicans cut taxes, they cut them massively for the rich and give the middle class and poor pennies. Any time someone wants to put more money in lower classes pockets they fabricate some bullshit to block it (Student Loan Forgiveness, Stimulus Checks) all a while giving Businesses Billions and removing oversight (PPP Loans).

[-] Hobbes@startrek.website 9 points 1 year ago

There's a difference between being exposed to a range of views and being exposed to hatred.

[-] FelipeFelop@discuss.online 2 points 1 year ago

And that’s were moderation (the act of moderation) comes in as a first step rather than instant defederation.

[-] Hobbes@startrek.website 7 points 1 year ago

r/conservative mods handed out bans for anyone even asking a legit question. Conservative arguments aren't fact based, so any good faith argument is seen as an attack and the only defense is to reject it outright. I don't know how good moderation can be applied to that.

[-] PsychedSy@lemmy.world 4 points 1 year ago

I'm socially pretty left but a voluntarist and it feels pretty hostile. Even socially moderate or liberal cons will feel pretty bad. I'm just used to chillin' in left spaces so it's whatever.

[-] qevlarr@lemmy.world 5 points 1 year ago

Unsurprisingly

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