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Not a fact? That the community correctly moderated your bad advice? We can actually see the votes currently with our eyes. Seems quite like a fact
Not your imagination? The random insults you dream up about me in the shower? Fascinating
That’s outside my scope of practice, which is why I’m asking you to bring it up with your colleagues
You are seriously saying three comments disagreeing with me using zero valid opinions the ENTIRE community? You are being an absolute dullard. You cant shut down this dialogue with this bullshit, fuck off with that ridiculous notion.
All my colleagues are busy entertaining your wonderful intelligent beautiful mother, so disregard asking them. I want your take on this. What do you think?
I’m happy to continue this conversation of course but I must first urgently advise you to caution your colleagues about my mother’s countless infectious STDs. I’m sure they have only pure intentions, but she herself can be very persuasive.
With this dire warning out of the way, votes are not comments yes? Although now that you mention it, yes, you are also correct in noticing that every single person who has commented has also disagreed with you, along with the many more who voted. Curious
Finally, since you have kindly asked for my opinion directly, and understand that I cannot offer you specific medical advice: my take is that you are not at all beyond hope, friend. Weigh that statement with all the credibility you believe I deserve
Dont say that about your mother, she took a major part in creating you, and by extension is a living god that creates life, and deserves a little respect. Moms dont get enough recognition.
Confirmation bias from a tiny sample set. If you were capable of critical thinking, you would disregard or hold your conclusions, but you are likely legitimately dumb, so I will give you this grace of ignorance.
Since I don't know or care about you, I will now eagerly take this evaluation I asked you for and promptly throw it in the trash where it belongs, because there are indeed many people out there who are incorrigably lost and actually beyond hope (MAGA Trump dick riders, and also you since you rejected pleas to stop trolling and seek therapy).
Next up: you good bro? You DO NOT sound okay. This entire dialogue went very far and you for sure need a professional to talk to, not idiots on the internet.
“Living gods” huh? And your obsession with incels…hmm
Anyway, thank you for considering my point of view regardless of its value. I’m disappointed now though, you say this dialogue “went” so far? In the past tense? Are you thinking of parting ways?
For me personally, I think this would be a particularly productive moment to really drill into the specific details of valid and sound methods of statistical analysis, as well as establishing the consensus of medical experts regarding injury mitigation in new runners. So I hope I read that wrong, and that I’ll be hearing from you soon. Cheers
If you think of women, the way you talk about your own mother, I don't have any will to relate to you at any level, so the conversation will always be coming back to you evaluating yourself and the dumb shit you continue to say here.
Using the past-tense is casual parlance that normal people use when talking, but it doesn't always confirm the termination of a concept. I don't know where you went to school (if at all), so continuing to nit-pick semantics will do nothing to progress our dialogue.
You are the reason this remains a circular argument that keeps coming back to irrelevant shit; topic remains that you are wrong about my advice being harmful and you have no factual basis to justify your position with any logical foundation.
Your last paragraph is tedious nonsense that you think is making you sound interesting or intelligent. You are not. Medical experts unanimously agree that any form of exercise is better than none, and that running or jogging will improve your mental health by a fucking statistically significant order of magnitude.
You have been arguing against this, because this shit is what I am trying to convey. You are either a complete moron to disagree, or need to tell me what the fuck you have been attempting to do here.
My guess is that you are trolling, and subsequently you need to go fuck yourself. This mental health community doesn't need your bullshit, go get help from professionals, like right now.
Posting random “exercise is good” research? I agree. The point if you recall is that your onboarding advice specifically is injurious. TMTS is the most well documented phenomena in the sport, and affects everyone, not just beginners. Your advice would even be bad when moderate distance runners transition into long distance. Write up a 5 paragraph essay on the actual topic if it pleases you
Thanks for defending my mother’s honor though, I’ll be sure to pass along your noble sentiments once she’s finished deflowering your friends
You are speaking more nonsense. I did not recommend a distance, only a time and low effort level.
I didn't tell this dude to run until his feet fall off, just a light fucking jog. You are seriously insane.
Your mom is an amazing woman; STFU and be a better person to her regardless if she has been shit to you.