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how do i take things slow with my gf?
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I wish I could help but all of my gfs have wanted to play tonsil hockey (minimum) from the first date. I'm not sure I would have the strength of mind to take things slow. I'm 100% sure I would go insane.
i feel like people ive dated might be on the aroace spectrum or demiromantic or something but idk
That's rough. Although from my point of view (hypersexual) pretty much everyone is. It's extremely frustrating.