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submitted 2 days ago by cnlwhs to c/mtf

I am 14M(AGAB) and started feeling gender dysphoria after starting puberty. At first I thought that I was agender. Soon, I found myself imagining being an AGAB agender, so I decided that I was not agender but a trans girl. However, after identifying as trans, I only feel gender dysphoria once a while, and it's not string enough as before. I am now thinking that I might not be trans, and what I felt before was just a normal puberty experience. I'm afraid that I was thinking about myself all wrong.

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[-] Zannsolo@lemmy.world 4 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

As a cis male who never experienced dysphoria I can't relate to your feelings. Exploring who you are is a great choice. You are 14 you don't need to make any concrete decisions about who you are. You might not be what your agab was and you might not truly identify as a female but from my limited understanding it's a spectrum so don't decide who you are find it out. Best of luck, I hope you have great people to surround you at home, If you don't find your people and leave the baggage behind.

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