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The few cases we have of cis people being medically transitioned in some way without their consent suggest that this simply isn't the case, at least for many cis folk.
Alan Turing and David Reimer are both examples of cis folk who were medically transitioned without their consent, one as an adult, one as a child, and both experienced severe dysphoria. They ultimately both took their own lives
So my intuition is wrong there, thanks. I clarified my question to the other guy just a minute ago to hopefully make what I'm asking more clear, (I didn't fully understand myself tbh), I'd be curious to get a response to that.
I really apologize if it came across as hurtful. I was being overly wordy trying to be sensitive to how this question would come across (hence using this thread for it) and it didn't convey great. It just seems like it would be very similar to the mental and emotional struggles I've gone through and comparing and contrasting to to my own experiences helps me understand people better.
Maybe, maybe not. Your own intuition about your experience of gender may not be wrong. There's not really any way to know. What we do know though is that at least some cis people have a strong sense of their own gender, that can cause dysphoria in certain circumstances.