I never could quite understand how to describe the experience of "clicking" or "meshing" with someone. Now I realize its got to do with the mutual ability to differentiate between communication from an emotional thought and that from a logical thought.

When I'm not clicking with someone they're probably regularly misattributing and applying the opposed source of communication and acting on it. When someone assigns an emotional thought to the logic bin it feels like backstabbing, like the thought is weaponized against me while I was being vulnerable.

Anyways, that's why i talk to you as little as possible Steve.