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I always thought high waist pants would be uncomfortable when you sit down. Is that not the case with these? Do they stretch?
If you dont pull them up a lot (which you shouldnt do, because then you get an obvious bulge) it is no problem. They are not formfitting leggins and theres still some space for your balls to go
It's supposedly uncomfortable because it squeezes your stomach/gut. These complaints I've seen were from cis women.
Undoing the top button when sitting for any length of time makes high waisted jeans more comfortable, and you can hide it under your top or something if you're sitting in public so nobody will even know.
I haven't had a big problem with high rise. I'm forced to wear high rise because every other type of pants falls down even below "low rise" with my hip shape
Ah ok. Yeah I can definitely see why it is like that. I would suggest to buy one that may be a bit do wide and then pair it with a belt.
I hate them. I dislike midrise but can tolerate them.