166

What do you do when homeless folks ask for money? (sh.itjust.works)

submitted 23 hours ago by bridgeenjoyer@sh.itjust.works to c/asklemmy@lemmy.world

116 comments fedilink hide all child comments

This is becoming more common in my town. I just either feel like an ass saying I dont have cash, or lying, but I also can't be giving out 20's to everyone who asks.

I feel bad for most of them but at the same time I get anxiety walking down the sidewalk and seeing someone up ahead that I know is going to ask me for money. Its not like you can say "oh no, I donate to services that help the needy" because that person isn't necessarily being helped by that. And ignoring completely feels so mean, plus I tried that one time and the person was screaming at me as i walked away that I ignored them.

I also dont want my city to round them up and send them to prison camps, something they are planning and that I know a lot of people would vote for just to "get rid of them" but im not supporting that at all.

Its tough.

you are viewing a single comment's thread
view the rest of the comments

[-] Skyline969@lemmy.ca 32 points 23 hours ago

Guess it depends on your city. In my city I have literally seen a homeless person throw food back at the person who gave it to them and scream “I ASKED FOR A DOLLAR, BITCH!”

[-] WhiteRabbit@lemmy.today 18 points 22 hours ago

Yeah you gotta mostly ignore the homeless where I’m at. Heavy meth, fentanyl area. Street violence is not uncommon. Just keep it moving and don’t loiter too long if you know what’s good lol

[-] Tollana1234567@lemmy.today 1 points 11 hours ago

same here,

[-] Whostosay@sh.itjust.works 8 points 22 hours ago

You sure this isn't a scene in scary movie?

[-] hypnicjerk@lemmy.world 5 points 21 hours ago

LMAO it literally is

[-] Whostosay@sh.itjust.works 1 points 17 hours ago

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_gwKKT3XFJ0

[-] Whostosay@sh.itjust.works 1 points 17 hours ago

Word for word lol

[-] Skyline969@lemmy.ca 2 points 19 hours ago

Probably is, but it also happened in my city. My city’s gone to meth in a real bad way.

[-] Whostosay@sh.itjust.works 1 points 17 hours ago

Fair enough

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_gwKKT3XFJ0

[-] RaivoKulli@sopuli.xyz 2 points 20 hours ago

I've seen people get angry when instead of giving money they offered to buy food.

Called the bluff about needing the money to eat, I guess.

this post was submitted on 10 Aug 2025

166 points (100.0% liked)

Ask Lemmy

33895 readers

1556 users here now

A Fediverse community for open-ended, thought provoking questions

Rules: (interactive)

1) Be nice and; have fun

Doxxing, trolling, sealioning, racism, and toxicity are not welcomed in AskLemmy. Remember what your mother said: if you can't say something nice, don't say anything at all. In addition, the site-wide Lemmy.world terms of service also apply here. Please familiarize yourself with them

2) All posts must end with a '?'

This is sort of like Jeopardy. Please phrase all post titles in the form of a proper question ending with ?

3) No spam

Please do not flood the community with nonsense. Actual suspected spammers will be banned on site. No astroturfing.

4) NSFW is okay, within reason

Just remember to tag posts with either a content warning or a [NSFW] tag. Overtly sexual posts are not allowed, please direct them to either !asklemmyafterdark@lemmy.world or !asklemmynsfw@lemmynsfw.com. NSFW comments should be restricted to posts tagged [NSFW].

5) This is not a support community.

It is not a place for 'how do I?', type questions. If you have any questions regarding the site itself or would like to report a community, please direct them to Lemmy.world Support or email info@lemmy.world. For other questions check our partnered communities list, or use the search function.

6) No US Politics.

Please don't post about current US Politics. If you need to do this, try !politicaldiscussion@lemmy.world or !askusa@discuss.online

Reminder: The terms of service apply here too.