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[-] FlexibleToast@lemmy.world 79 points 1 week ago

"Cool" is taking it a bit far.

[-] candyman337@lemmy.world 52 points 1 week ago

The furry community is one of the most accepting and open minded communities because they understand what it's like to be treated as outcasts and to be chastised for liking something that's completely harmless just because it's out of the norm. Most of the time it's not even a sexual thing for them, it's just something they like or something that makes them feel more comfortable out in public. It's a way to make their exterior to be exactly what they want it to be. So in that way I think they're pretty cool as a whole.

[-] veroxii@aussie.zone 19 points 1 week ago

In general that may be true, but not all furries are benevolent. Every community to have ever existed in history eventually gets some bad apples and gatekeepers when it gets to a certain size.

https://www.avclub.com/the-insane-story-of-a-furry-convention-undone-by-its-de-1798264086

[-] candyman337@lemmy.world 24 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago)

Obviously, there are bad people in everything everywhere. That's why I said as a whole not ALL of them EVERYWHERE, like come on man, no offense meant, but use some context clues

[-] HatchetHaro@pawb.social 17 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago)

My guy, you've literally just described the human race. "Not all of [insert community here] is benevolent" rings true everywhere, not just furries.

[-] FlexibleToast@lemmy.world 4 points 1 week ago

That's why is weird to start with the assumption that anyone is cool. Or really start with any assumption at all.

[-] HatchetHaro@pawb.social 13 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago)

There's no assumption in saying "furries are cool", much in the same way one can say "anime is cool" and "robots are cool". It is a statement of opinion, not fact.

If you don't find it cool, just say you're not into it, but don't try to gatekeep someone's enjoyment of something by somehow refuting their opinion that something they enjoy "is cool".

[-] FlexibleToast@lemmy.world 2 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago)

I'm not trying to gatekeep anything. I don't care what you think is cool. Furries aren't some form of media or object, they're people. I don't assume people are cool based on their hobbies.

[-] lena@gregtech.eu 6 points 1 week ago

That's quite pedantic. I didn't mean that as in "all furries are cool, including Nazis, fascists and other assholes", I meant more "I like the furry fandom".

[-] callyral@pawb.social 3 points 1 week ago

Furries aren’t done form of media or object, they’re people.

"Furries" can refer either to people who are part of the furry fandom, or to the furry characters themselves.

It's kinda weird that that's the case, since usually, in furry spaces, the characters are referred to as "anthros" which is short for "anthropomorphic animals".

[-] FlexibleToast@lemmy.world 1 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago)

Well TIL. Doesn't really change the intent of what I said, but thanks for the knew knowledge.

[-] princessnorah 8 points 1 week ago

Yeah and Blaire White & Caitlin Jenner exist as trans people but most of us are pretty chill. What's your point?

[-] bhamlin@lemmy.world 1 points 1 week ago

Please don't be a fire caused by intense yiffing....

[-] MossyFeathers@pawb.social 38 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago)

Honestly, it's the exact opposite. Furries are pretty hot.

Yanno, because of all the fur.

[-] GraniteM@lemmy.world 21 points 1 week ago

I'm perfectly comfortable with taking it as far as "so long as it's all consenting adults, it's none of my fucking business, and I wish them all well."

If it's not my thing, no big deal. Some people like feet, and it's not my thing, so no big deal.

Even if I find it personally gross, again, consenting adults, no big deal. Some people are into watersports, but hey, so long as they're not leaving a mess or hurting each other, no big deal.

We've got enough trouble in the world without also trying to police what adults are doing in their goddamn personal lives. I yearn for a day in which more people could accept the "it's none of my fucking business" ethos.

[-] FlexibleToast@lemmy.world 12 points 1 week ago

Yeah, I agree with all that. Doesn't make anyone "cool" based on their sexual preference.

[-] basiclemmon98@lemmy.dbzer0.com 12 points 1 week ago

It's not a sexual preference, it's an artistic style and subject preference.

[-] sxan@midwest.social 3 points 1 week ago

My hard line is at the sexualizing animals, no matter how disguised, but whatever. It's fantasy. There are far worse role playing scenarios.

[-] DarkDarkHouse@lemmy.sdf.org 3 points 1 week ago

If you flip it around to giving animal features to people, is that fine?

[-] sxan@midwest.social 3 points 1 week ago

It's fine either way, add long as they can give consent. I'm just not attracted to animals, whether it's a pig head on a human body, or an intelligent pig.

[-] lena@gregtech.eu 18 points 1 week ago
[-] Zorque@lemmy.world 11 points 1 week ago

"I do not like a certain subset of humanity because they are different than me and I feel safe punching down at them"

[-] FlexibleToast@lemmy.world 13 points 1 week ago

Woah, you put a lot of words in my mouth. I don't mind them at all. I just wouldn't say they're cool. Thinking about it now, it's weird to think anyone is cool because of their sexual preference.

[-] Zorque@lemmy.world 17 points 1 week ago

Why is there this weird prudish subset of the internet that seeks to over-sexualize benign activities that make them uncomfortable.

Furries are, at most, a place where a minority find it easier to express sexuality (such as homo-, bi-, pan-sexuality amongst others). This isn't because it's inherently sexual, but because they feel comfort and lack of judgment from their peers.

It's a shame that you find that kind of acceptance to be uncomfortable

[-] FlexibleToast@lemmy.world 14 points 1 week ago

It's a shame that you find that kind of acceptance to be uncomfortable

What the fuck are you talking about? I never said anything is the sort.

[-] meyotch@slrpnk.net 7 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago)

Nah you were just ostensibly judgy about a specific subset of cosplay enthusiasts. They put a lot of effort into the show. It’s a huge trigger.

If, for instance, you were a large-hat enthusiast, you might be put out if someone decided you fucked kids because of your sombrero.

[-] FlexibleToast@lemmy.world 13 points 1 week ago

Except, I didn't do that.

[-] lena@gregtech.eu 11 points 1 week ago

Being a furry isn't inherently sexual

[-] arguablytheworst@lemmy.world 13 points 1 week ago

Its not punching down to be uncomfortable with people sexualising animals

[-] Zorque@lemmy.world 17 points 1 week ago

It is when you generalize an entire subculture based on an episode of CSI from 1999

[-] basiclemmon98@lemmy.dbzer0.com 14 points 1 week ago

Dude, are werewolves the same as wolf-wolves to you? Because they are really not the same at all. It's like saying a lemur is the same as a human. It is cognitively and anatomically very different.

[-] wizardbeard@lemmy.dbzer0.com 5 points 1 week ago

Sure, but I've also seen plenty of content that is along the lines of "dog level of intelligence in caked up human body" (see: that slimy fucking "dog girlfriend" comic the one person posts to the comics community about once a week) and content that is "lets leave the anthro aspects on the shelf today" (Let me check my tag blacklist... pretty sure it's tagged as "feral" on boorus).

Maybe this guy is talking about anthro stuff, or even catgirls, and is just pearl clutching. But there are also some quite concerning subgroups under the furry umbrella (much like many large groups). Just saying.

[-] basiclemmon98@lemmy.dbzer0.com 2 points 1 week ago

Yea I obviously agree that when the 'feral' category is sexualized, it is unimaginably gross, at that point you are really just making gross zoophilic art and invading furry spaces with it. But normal 'feral' art is just about cuteness and the intellegence is often scaled to be on-par with humans (think like Fox and The Hound). Do you beleive that version of 'feral' is bad?

[-] abbotsbury@lemmy.world 10 points 1 week ago

"I don't think this particular hobby is cool" is not "I do not like a certain subset of humanity" and you are a clown for attempting such. If you've ever wondered why someone dislikes you, it is probably because of this behavior.

[-] EldritchFeminity 2 points 1 week ago

Unfortunately, that's not what they meant.

Woah, you put a lot of words in my mouth. I don't mind them at all. I just wouldn't say they're cool. Thinking about it now, it's weird to think anyone is cool because of their sexual preference.

Turns out it was the bog standard "furries are sexual deviants" stereotype that's existed since the early days of the internet.🥱

[-] abbotsbury@lemmy.world 2 points 1 week ago

Still nothing about being a deviant, go cry about strawmen tho

[-] EldritchFeminity 2 points 1 week ago

Except it's not a straw man though, because the furry=fetish stereotype has a verifiable source of when it entered the mainstream culture from a pair of TV episodes in the 90s and 00s - the famous CSI episode and one from a similar show that I can't remember the name of. These two painted furry conventions as basically sex dens filled with orgies of people in animal costumes, and that was the first time most people outside of niche parts of the internet had even heard of furries.

Before furries, it happened to Trekkies. People said that people only liked Star Trek for the sexy green alien women. But it isn't often that a fandom is treated like this and for this long. Anime had a similar but not quite the same stereotype, but that's largely relegated to the really bad parts of the anime fandom.

And it's very similar to the pathologization of trans women as men who get off on the idea of seeing themselves as women.

I'm not saying that they think that furries are sexual predators or something. I'm saying that the idea of furries being a fetish is a stereotype born from a malicious place that painted an entire minority as a bunch of sexual deviants for viewership on TV, and that they're perpetuating that stereotype.

[-] Semi_Hemi_Demigod@lemmy.world 8 points 1 week ago

Yeah those fursuits look really hot to wear

[-] octoham@lemmy.world 8 points 1 week ago

why? i think they're cool, is there smth i don't know?

[-] toofpic@lemmy.world 3 points 1 week ago

Yeah, I think it should be really warm in such costumes

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