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submitted 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) by Aksamit@slrpnk.net to c/lgbtq_plus

I'm afab and if the surgery was possible for turning what I have into a fully functioning dick, I would have done it by now.

Basically I'm comfortable with my perceived gender, I just wish how I see myself mentally when I think about sex, matched up to what I've got in my pants. I've felt this way since I was a young teenager too, so it's not a phase or a fetish, it's how I've wanted to present sexually for most of my life.

Does this disconnect I'm talking about just fall under the non-binary trans umbrella? Or is it a seperate thing?

Are there any other people here who feel this way?

(Phalloplasty does not appeal to me. The surgery is brutal, it doesn't look right (to me) when it heals, it isn't functional how I would want it to be, and it isn't sensitive like a dick.)

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[-] ToastedCoconuts@piefed.blahaj.zone 2 points 16 hours ago

Absolutely, you can message me! I'm not sure how well messaging works between piefed and lemmy yet, but I have a lemmy account too, if this doesn't work. I'm sorry it took so long for me to respond. I hope you got enough rest, it seemed like there was a lot to process through this whole post

Dr Girlfriend was a whole vibe. Almost a call back to the chainsmoking, husky-voiced actresses in vintage films

I know exactly what you mean about experiencing euphoria just from viewing the website!

[-] Aksamit@slrpnk.net 1 points 9 hours ago

Let me know if it worked. Either way though, I'm open to answers on what I asked from anyone who sees this as it's an interesting question.

Anatomy does not define gender, so is it still gender euphoria if it's not about the gender, but the anatomy?

this post was submitted on 26 Jun 2025
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