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I'm a woman (lemmy.world)
submitted 2 days ago by tanisnikana@lemmy.world to c/mtf

Despite how a lady at the bookstore “struggled with” my pronouns and bounced off “he” several times before settling on “they” cause apparently she couldn’t bring herself to say “she.”

Shit’s hard out there.

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[-] dandelion 5 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago)

hm, do you know anyone who would be willing to do your makeup for you?

I know you can always go pay someone to do that for you (e.g. in the U.S. you can go to a Sephora to get a make-over), but sometimes girlfriends are willing to do makeup for fun, if I were there I would totally do your makeup for you 😊

either way I'm sorry to hear about your fusiform gyrus - do you know why it's shot? That doesn't sound great 🫠

[-] tanisnikana@lemmy.world 5 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago)

I’ve actually survived two strokes and walk with a cane. The right half of my body is generally a mess, but my rehab has done well for me. At least I can walk!

Also, insofar about me from the neck down, I’m intensely sex-repulsed and have zero breast matter going on. I use slight padding to give gentle curves there, but nothing major. So showing chest generally can’t happen with me looking even more masculine.

Honestly, I may as well keep playing the hand I’ve been dealt, because there’s not many other options for me.

And really, I don’t have any cis people I talk to without a cash register within touching distance.

[-] swizzlestick@lemmy.zip 6 points 2 days ago

Two strokes, trans, and yet still pushing forward against the shit shoveled your way. You are objectively kicking ass despite the hand dealt & that needs to be said.

Some great tips above that I won't try to clumsily add to, but you have my best wishes. I hope you get to where you want to be.

[-] dandelion 4 points 2 days ago

for real, she's crushing it - I am amazed 🤩

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