Is it too early for a (21F) proposal to her? (23F) (lemmy.ml)

submitted 4 days ago by wendyz@lemmy.ml to c/lesbians

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I have been dating my girlfriend for 3 years. I want to surprise her by proposing to her and being all fancy for our hangout soon, but I don’t want to move too fast. 3 years should be fine, right??

Anyway, I’ll tell you how it goes!!

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[-] oftheair 8 points 4 days ago

Is this the kind of surprise she would be okay with? Have you talked to her about it before?

[-] wendyz@lemmy.ml 5 points 4 days ago

Yep!

[-] oftheair 6 points 4 days ago

Alright then, hope it goes well 🙂

[-] wendyz@lemmy.ml 3 points 3 days ago

It did! She said yes!!

[-] Sivecano@lemmy.dbzer0.com 2 points 3 days ago

[-] oftheair 2 points 3 days ago

Awesome! Thank you for telling us!

[-] wendyz@lemmy.ml 2 points 3 days ago* (last edited 3 days ago)

Of course! Hey, we noticed you’re plural. We are too!!

(we’re going to sleep for real so we will respond later)

[-] oftheair 2 points 3 days ago* (last edited 3 days ago)

Excellent! We might be starting a plural community on this instance (blahaj) too since lemmee is closing. Hope y'all sleep well!

[-] erotador 1 points 2 days ago

I'm interested in this comm, I would love to know more

[-] oftheair 1 points 2 days ago

!Plural@lemmy.blahaj.zone https://lemmy.blahaj.zone/c/Plural

[-] oftheair 1 points 2 days ago

What exactly would you like to know?

[-] erotador 2 points 2 days ago

thats a good question, i didnt think this far...

[-] oftheair 1 points 2 days ago

grins and winks

[-] wendyz@lemmy.ml 1 points 3 days ago

Please do! And thanks!

[-] oftheair 1 points 2 days ago

!Plural@lemmy.blahaj.zone https://lemmy.blahaj.zone/c/Plural

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