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Censoring Nipples (lemmy.blahaj.zone)
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[-] IhaveCrabs111@lemmy.world 2 points 3 weeks ago* (last edited 3 weeks ago)

Ok. So if it’s based on arbitrary cultural standards that are made up, wouldn’t the new version just be a different made up social construct that we would pretend is real as well? Except we would just be pretending that boobs aren’t real? Or have no relevance

[-] Knock_Knock_Lemmy_In@lemmy.world 3 points 3 weeks ago

arbitrary cultural standards that are not applied equally are sexist.

[-] IhaveCrabs111@lemmy.world 1 points 3 weeks ago

If the rule changed as to be everyone has to cover up their chests it would become sexist to men because men don’t even have breasts.

[-] Knock_Knock_Lemmy_In@lemmy.world 2 points 3 weeks ago

Men have chests. Fat men also have breasts.

But it seems the defining feature is the nipple, and both sexes have those.

[-] IhaveCrabs111@lemmy.world 1 points 3 weeks ago* (last edited 3 weeks ago)

Yes but the attraction to men’s chests is based on the muscle tone usually where as women it’s the shape of the breast and further more the centre of that. I think there also an acknowledgment that women’s nipples are way more sensitive and prone to triggering arousal when touched compared to a man. These are broad generalisations but laws need to be broad and general.

Also no one’s getting excited by man boobs, generally speaking

[-] Knock_Knock_Lemmy_In@lemmy.world 1 points 3 weeks ago

These are broad generalisations but laws need to be broad and general.

So the solution is to treat all chests and nipples equally. Allow them to be shown, or hide them from everyone, but enforce the rule consistently.

[-] IhaveCrabs111@lemmy.world 1 points 3 weeks ago

But in general men and women are different in this area and there’s vastly different reactions to each scenario ie a man having his shirt off vs a woman having her shirt off

[-] Knock_Knock_Lemmy_In@lemmy.world 1 points 3 weeks ago

Laws can only be enforced on someone's actions, not on other peoples reactions.

[-] IhaveCrabs111@lemmy.world 1 points 3 weeks ago

Yes but decency laws are applied purely because of the reactions they cause. If someone takes a shit down a drain on the street it’s not the littering that bothers me so much. I want there to be a law that can make that stop.

[-] Knock_Knock_Lemmy_In@lemmy.world 1 points 3 weeks ago

Again, someone has to act indecently. It's not the reaction that makes something illegal.

Nudism has already been ruled as not being indecent, this applies equally to males and females.

I want there to be a law that can make that stop.

Ah. Now we are getting to your point. You want it to be illegal for someone to offend you. Not going to happen, because it is not practical. Different people will be offended by different things. It's not a basis for law.

[-] IhaveCrabs111@lemmy.world 1 points 3 weeks ago* (last edited 3 weeks ago)

If nudism (where you are) is not deemed as indecent I completely agree there should never be a law that specifically targets women. That seems obvious. Where I am nudism or more specifically being naked in a public space is deemed as indecent.

[-] Knock_Knock_Lemmy_In@lemmy.world 1 points 3 weeks ago

I think the position we have reached in this discussion is that laws should be equal for everyone, regardless of sex.

This means that if a society decides naked female nipples/breasts are offensive then it should also apply to males. If male nipples are not offensive then neither are females.

[-] IhaveCrabs111@lemmy.world 1 points 3 weeks ago

Is this really true? I can’t walk around with a flamethrower even though I haven’t used it. The reason is because people don’t feel comfortable with that right?

[-] Knock_Knock_Lemmy_In@lemmy.world 1 points 3 weeks ago

Swap flamethrower for gun and you are describing open carry laws. Some states have decided this is legal, others not.

But the laws do apply equally, independent of gender.

[-] IhaveCrabs111@lemmy.world 1 points 3 weeks ago

Age of consent laws are applied differently to each gender, it acknowledges differences. Age pension laws acknowledge differences in retirement age. I think we can agree open carry laws make people uncomfortable and that’s why most states and the people in them are sane enough to disagree with them. People would prefer to not know you have a gun and all the angst and discomfort that goes along with it, it’s not so much the issue of the gun itself.

[-] Knock_Knock_Lemmy_In@lemmy.world 1 points 3 weeks ago

Age of consent laws are applied differently to each gender. Age pension laws acknowledge differences in retirement age.

Only in sexist countries. Most of Europe has progressive equal laws

[-] IhaveCrabs111@lemmy.world 1 points 2 weeks ago

Ok, if we balance that can we raise the age that a woman can claim the pension and also get rid of government help when a woman becomes pregnant and has a child in a hospital?

[-] Knock_Knock_Lemmy_In@lemmy.world 1 points 2 weeks ago

we raise the age that a woman can claim the pension

Correct

get rid of government help when a woman becomes pregnant

Other way around. Provide free universal health care no matter the age, sex or previous conditions.

But you raise an interesting point. For example, in the EU it is not allowed to discriminate when offering car insurance, but statistically men have more expensive accidents. The insurance companies are forced to accept the mispricing loss.

[-] ToastedPlanet 1 points 3 weeks ago

You being horny isn't a justification treat women as second class citizens. Grow up.

[-] IhaveCrabs111@lemmy.world 1 points 3 weeks ago

I’m not talking about me, I’m talking about humans in general. I think it’s obscene on some level for a stranger to walk around topless in front of children.

[-] ToastedPlanet 1 points 3 weeks ago

That's prudish. It's the 21st century. This is a beach in America and it's fine.

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