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[-] BonesOfTheMoon@lemmy.world 7 points 19 hours ago

I have a routine day job and a part time night job which I do from home on contract basis. I had vacation from my day job last week, because I have a sweet union job and get loads of vacation so some of it is just hanging out at home, but it's AMAZING how job 2 expands to fill all that time, as well as every errand thing I have no time for, like haircuts. And my dork assed loser ex I still have to live with is like "well you can get these things done while you're off". I'm never off. Never ever.

[-] grrgyle@slrpnk.net 1 points 3 hours ago

Ugh that sucks. Is it not an option to drop that additional responsibility? Just say you can't because of "prior obligations" (taking care of yourself)?

I find empathetic people are often the worst at letting things break so they can have one.

Not that I fully know your situation, so pardon my perscriptivising.

[-] BonesOfTheMoon@lemmy.world 2 points 1 hour ago

No, unfortunately I need the money, and my ex is a bad situation that I have to grey rock through.

[-] Amanduh@lemm.ee 1 points 17 hours ago

Is it really that crazy to think you might have more time to do things when on vacation from your day job?

[-] grrgyle@slrpnk.net 2 points 3 hours ago

I do "productive vacations" mostly too, but sometimes you need a real break. I'm not even talking about going anywhere, but giving yourself time to just laze about and read and make meals and just do basic tidying, or whatever.

I don't even have a paying job right now, but I can't wait until I do, so I can take a week off to actually relax.

You might not need that, but I do.

[-] BonesOfTheMoon@lemmy.world 3 points 16 hours ago

It is actually. The amount I work is insane.

[-] Amanduh@lemm.ee 2 points 13 hours ago
[-] BonesOfTheMoon@lemmy.world 2 points 4 hours ago

Why shouldn't I be? I've worked at least 60 hours a week for 20 years, while he sits on his ass and watches hours of TV.

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