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submitted 3 weeks ago* (last edited 3 weeks ago) by Cris_Color@lemmy.world to c/fediverse@lemmy.world

The fediverse is small, and thats both a blessing and a curse - one of its several blessings is that in a smaller space we all individually have a bigger impact on what the culture of this space is like.

On this comm (and on lemmy broadly) there's a lot of discussion about how to grow the fediverse, what to improve, but an easy thing you can do for the fediverse is right in front of us-

  • Be kind

  • Ask people what they think, and why

  • Approach folks you disagree with with curiosity rather than hostility (EDIT: no, this is not specifically referring to Nazis. I get it, they're the first thing that comes to mind. I'm not telling you to approve of Nazis I'm just saying be kind to your fellow lemmites)

  • Engage sincerely

  • Ask yourself if there's something nice you can say

  • Make this small space worth being in

A platform lives or dies by what's available on said platform and often we have this conversation in the context of "content" or posts - and we may never have as much content as reddit does. But content and posts aren't the only thing this kind of platform offers- it also offers people. It offers community, and human interaction.

Culture and community is lemmy and the fediverse's biggest differentiator, and we all have a role to play in shaping the culture of this space.

The biggest thing you can do to help the fediverse is make it a place worth being.

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That suggests we should be intolerant of intolerance, which is an oxymoron.

[-] SuiXi3D@fedia.io 23 points 3 weeks ago

Almost as if the statement is referring to the paradox of tolerance.

By allowing people like Nazis, Christofascists, Tankies, etc. a platform, it only invites more sharing that view to spread their bullshit around. This makes those that don’t share those extremist views uncomfortable they then leave those places. You see it on platforms like Truth Social, X, and 4Chan.

If this is to be a kind place, we must encourage kindness and rid ourselves of unkindness. You can’t tolerate intolerance, lest it spread and take over.

[-] Banana@sh.itjust.works 14 points 3 weeks ago* (last edited 3 weeks ago)

If you allow wolves and sheep into a space, that is a wolves-only space.

(For context, I agree with you.)

[-] dota__2@lemmy.world 20 points 3 weeks ago

it's only an oxymoron if you're a moron. tolerance is a social contract. the intolerant break that contract and are no longer to be protected by it.

[-] fubo@lemmy.world 17 points 3 weeks ago

Not really. Nazis are scum and deserve to be kicked out.

[-] rocket_dragon@lemmy.dbzer0.com 11 points 3 weeks ago

Paradox of Tolerance - Karl Poppler - 1945

It's a shame that something we already figured out 60 years ago still needs to be learned by most people.

The good news is, this is an opportunity for you to grow and be better right now. It's never too late to improve yourself.

[-] Coelacanth@feddit.nu 5 points 3 weeks ago

60 years ago? Buddy, I have some bad news for you...

[-] rocket_dragon@lemmy.dbzer0.com 5 points 3 weeks ago

Wdym financial cashes, pandemic, doomscrolling, Trump got the presidency twice??

You're talking crazy it's only 2005 bro, futuristic computer interface means frutiger aero, I listen to music on my iPod and text on my candybar flip phone </3</3

[-] Coelacanth@feddit.nu 5 points 3 weeks ago

Don't worry, at least 2005 was only ten years ago.

...wait.

[-] Banana@sh.itjust.works 8 points 3 weeks ago

Sure, if you think of it as purely semantic, or a zero sum game with no nuance, but it's not.

Gotta be intolerant of those being needlessly cruel to those just trying to live their lives, and gotta be tolerant of those just trying to live their lives that don't affect you, even if you find it cringey.

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