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[-] drascus@sh.itjust.works 80 points 1 week ago

Every time I see an article like this I think who fucking cares? Like what's going on with men? Its a generational and cultural thing its not men's fault. Dating sucks, people get rejected in ultra harsh ways, sometimes being filmed and then posted on social media for trying to ask someone out. If I was in the age range to be dating I wouldn't bother.

[-] shortrounddev@lemmy.world 36 points 1 week ago

It's a problem to have so many single, disaffected men out there

[-] taladar@sh.itjust.works 35 points 1 week ago

Might be a good time to downplay the importance of a relationship for a happy life then instead of trying to push the message that your life sucks if you don't have one.

[-] shortrounddev@lemmy.world 22 points 1 week ago

Maybe being alone works for some people, but the desire for intimate relationships is a biological drive in human beings

[-] taladar@sh.itjust.works 13 points 1 week ago

My point was that making people feel worse about their situation likely won't improve the outcome. People either would be happy without a partner or they won't and those who won't don't need an external push to try to find a partner and both groups might feel worse if they are publicly branded a failure for not having a partner.

[-] tane@lemm.ee 11 points 1 week ago

Yup and it’s a problem that only becomes worse over time

[-] drascus@sh.itjust.works 5 points 1 week ago

how do you know they are disaffected. Maybe they are single and just fine with it.

[-] Master167@lemmy.world 1 points 1 week ago

"Influence" numbers of Andrew Tate & Musk says otherwise. I'm also assuming a large following of those two are unhappy single men.

[-] AtariDump@lemmy.world 1 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago)
[-] UltraGiGaGigantic@lemmy.ml 1 points 1 week ago

Dude, you're not supposed to talk about Fight Club.

[-] AtariDump@lemmy.world 4 points 1 week ago

Talk about what now?

[-] x00z@lemmy.world 5 points 1 week ago
[-] madjo@feddit.nl 7 points 1 week ago

Then they get to step up and approach men for a change.

[-] drascus@sh.itjust.works 5 points 1 week ago

well then they should step up and start asking people out instead of waiting for guys to do it.

[-] FatTony@lemmy.world 3 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago)

people get rejected in ultra harsh ways, sometimes being filmed and then posted on social media for trying to ask someone out.

Are you sure this isn't exaggerating it a little? This may be anecdotal but I have never dealt with any such harsh rejection within my social circles (neither have my associates). What I'm trying to get at is that there may be a vocal minority that gets a lot of online attention.

Then again if thousands upon thousands of people see such a post (like on say r/Tinder) and take it as a common phenomenon it would still have the same effect.

[-] drascus@sh.itjust.works 2 points 1 week ago

Really the fear of it happening is enough. All you have to do is have it happen once, or know someone that it happened to, or see a video of it for that to scare you off of even trying.

[-] FatTony@lemmy.world 2 points 1 week ago

That sounds like an irrational fear if you ask me. Like with fear of flying.

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