You keep insisting that you're not on their side, but you do insist we more or less are morally obligated to let them try to kill us without responding.

Furthermore, you demonstrate a clear double standard in your argument. If the only logical response to being bombed by the West is to attack Westerners, then doesn't it stand to reason that the logical response to being attacked by the Houthis is to attack the Houthis? It's the same as the arguments defending Hamas. You treat the Arabs as if they're too stupid to try diplomacy while arguing we are morally obligated to endure being attacked by them.