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Anon sees a happy couple
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this post was submitted on 20 Feb 2025
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Sometimes I hear Kevin Smith talking about himself in front of a crowd, and he immediately describes himself as this fat loser... and I always think bro, you're doing fine - great even - stop putting yourself down in front of others, it makes everyone feel weird.
Ugh, I just had a flashback to middle school, when my very attractive friend (who was already a model) complained that she was ugly because of an itty, bitty little zit she got one day.
Meanwhile I sat there, a relative pizza-face, thinking: Seriously? If you are ugly, what does that make the rest of us?
Yeah well Kevin did weigh 257 pounds and is a successful director, producer, writer and actor... I'm north of 400 and none of those things. But I got other things going for me, so I'm okay with being a fat ugly loser, I'm winning what's important to me.
Well I'm probably reading too much into it, but I just think that being publicly revulsed by yourself, even in jest, teaches others how to treat you.
I know that going the other way is the path to narcissism/arrogance, and pointing out your faults keeps you humble and telegraphs that you have no defences because you dont need any... but I think that works only if you assume that people dont take others at face value. Which we all unfortunately do.
Not really sure what I'm advising here, or what the middleground exactly is here, but hopefully you can see where I'm coming from
Both directions of it are defense mechanisms. And ime it's better to go the jokingly overconfident route than the self depreciation route, though I find a bit of both to be fun. That said here his self depreciation serves his argument.
Agreed on all fronts