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submitted 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago) by HawlSera@lemm.ee to c/transgender@lemmy.ml

I'm a transgender woman and like most of our kind, I'm fucking horrified.

The Democrats are blaming us for 2024's lossx

Trump signed an executive order criminalizing our existence

And I've had cis friends turn on me, telling me "People like you should have left children out of it, you've hurt your cause forever!!111!11"

I have no hope for the future, I feel truly and horrifically, cooked.

I just wanna know. Why did this happen? Why does everyone suddenly hate transpeople when Anti-Trans Policies were deeply unpopular as recently as 2023?

Why? Why? Why?

I just want to know, what did we do wrong? What changed? Why is this happening to us? When do the papers come saying they've "corrected my gender marker" or are they just going to drag me off to the camps instead?

I just.. I'm trying to hold it together, and I fucking can't.

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[-] Diva@lemmy.ml 10 points 20 hours ago* (last edited 20 hours ago)

I'm also a trans woman, I don't think you should look for anything specific that went wrong. There was always going to be an out-group to blame for all of societies woes. I've been saying since 10/7 that if we're willing to just accept what's happening there (in Palestine) then it's just a matter of time until normalization of dehumanizing people like that blows back in our faces over here.

The last few years have been revelatory. I lost a chunk of my personal friend group after 10/7, it pushed me to instead more actively connect with other trans people in my locality in person. I've circulated memes to the effect prior to the election and because of that experience I wasn't surprised to see liberals jumping right to blaming trans people for their failures after this election.

Mutual aid and solidarity across impacted groups is going to be important in the years ahead. All we can do is be prepared as best we can and look to our allies and whatever community we can build.

this post was submitted on 21 Jan 2025
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