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submitted 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) by ada to c/196

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This community is housed on an instance run by two trans women, focused on the needs of the queer and gender diverse community.

We allowed 196 here because we were promised the community is queer and trans inclusive.

If you're here it's because you're aggressively supportive of trans folk. Not middle of the ground, not "just asking questions".

If your response to that is, "yes, but..." then this isn't the instance for you, and by extension, this isn't the community for you.

tl;dr - Unambiguous support and inclusion, or fuck off somewhere else.

Edit - I changed the phrase "aggressive support to "unambiguous support", as there was some confusion over the intent behind my previous phrasing.

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[-] Mozingo@lemmy.world 52 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

Being defederated just means you can't see new posts on beehaw communities and they can't see your communities at all. If your instance and beehaw are both federated with a third instance, like the one this community is on, then you'll still be able to see comments by beehaw users on that instance.

[-] Aesthesiaphilia@kbin.social 36 points 1 year ago

Let me just make sure I got this right

Dee is on lemmy.world

Zoop is on beehaw

This thread is on lemmy.blahaj.zone

So Dee and Zoop can see each other's comments since neither lemmy.world nor beehaw is defederated from blahaj.zone?

It's like a border state or something

[-] gramathy@lemmy.world 31 points 1 year ago

Accorded neutral ground

[-] Dee@lemmy.world 25 points 1 year ago

I can see Zoop's comment, but Zoop can't see mine. Because beehaw is defederated from lemmy.world but lemmy.world has not chosen to defederate from beehaw so it still gets the comments from beehaw users.

Actually because all these replies are to my lemmy.world account Zoop can't see this entire exchange, and I can't see it on my beehaw account either. I just had a brain fart.

[-] Aesthesiaphilia@kbin.social 7 points 1 year ago

Ah, okay. Because behaw defederated they're not seeing anything from lemmy.world. They're also not sending anything to lemmy.world. But they are sending stuff to blahaj.zone, so you can read that stuff.

I wonder if they're seeing my responses, from kbin, to your comments, from lemmy.world, on blahaj.zone.

[-] Dee@lemmy.world 6 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

I wonder if they’re seeing my responses, from kbin, to your comments, from lemmy.world, on blahaj.zone.

I cannot see anything from this conversation on my beehaw account, because it all stemmed from my original reply (which is from a lemmy.world account). So on beehaw it's just Zoop's original comment, nothing after.

Edit: For example on beehaw this post as 37 comments, while on lemmy.world it has 97 (at the time of writing this edit)

[-] Strawberry 1 points 1 year ago

why did beehaw defederate from lemmy.world?

[-] Dee@lemmy.world 1 points 1 year ago

That's why. Which is to say they were getting too many reports from lemmy.world accounts to go through and keep the good vibes in their communities, but hope to refederate as soon as Lemmy gets more granular moderation tools developed.

[-] Strawberry 1 points 1 year ago

I see, thank you

[-] Dee@lemmy.world 9 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

~~I'm not sure about that. I think it might be a glitch or something because I never see beehaw comments on lemmy.world and never see lemmy.world comments on my beehaw account. Like, I can't see the comment I made on this account from my beehaw account.~~

~~Just thought it was odd.~~

I was just being dumb, Monzingo is right.