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[-] RBWells@lemmy.world 3 points 1 month ago

That can't be unique. I think most guys want a woman who can hold a full time job. That is not a big ask, it's like a minimum - it makes absolute sense, you will be stronger together. I would be extremely suspicious of a guy who didn't want me to work. Even if they made so much and wanted to cover all the bills, great. I work, we have some money to save and I can go get my legs waxed or whatever without having to ask for money to do it. I do not want someone to have that sort of control. I disagree strongly with the commenters saying that you should bend on this, it is not at all an outrageous thing to need.

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