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[-] Stovetop@lemmy.world 149 points 2 months ago

I like and admire vegans.

I probably should be vegan because I am lucky enough to have the economic privilege to support that kind of lifestyle.

But, as with many other communities centered around lifestyle topics, I would never want to participate in a vegan community. Lifestyle communities always become insular and echo-chambery, so you become a pariah if you don't properly adhere to 100% of the community consensus behaviors.

Not just vegans, but you see it happen with fitness communities, diy/home decor, a lot of hobbies, etc.

[-] BeigeAgenda@lemmy.ca 41 points 2 months ago

I'm just keeping an eye out for good recipes.

[-] Beaver@lemmy.ca 11 points 2 months ago

I like that approach.

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[-] mathemachristian@lemm.ee 29 points 2 months ago

Abstaining from animal murder and torture is admirable and something I should do OTOH some internet commenters are mean about it

I wonder why they would be mean...

[-] gedaliyah@lemmy.world 93 points 2 months ago

Good job! This is the comment that made them turn vegan! Mission accomplished!

[-] cheddar@programming.dev 42 points 2 months ago

That's not the goal. They attack people because that makes them feel better. Animals? Who cares. Definitely not them.

[-] jdr@lemmy.ml 14 points 2 months ago

I'm a cow and this made me feel better about my fate

[-] davepleasebehave@lemmy.world 8 points 2 months ago

yes. it is the vegans who really hate animals!

[-] cheddar@programming.dev 14 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago)

What I said is that you don't help animals with your hysteria. So I can conclude vegans struggle with logic. At least in your case.

[-] Beaver@lemmy.ca 7 points 2 months ago

Nope, thats projection when carnists refuse to read all the studies that supports the plant-based diet and act rude when they realize their actions cause harm.

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[-] Beaver@lemmy.ca 5 points 2 months ago

Nah, facts dont care about feelings. Being vegan a day prevents the death of an animal.

[-] mathemachristian@lemm.ee 18 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago)

If your belief lives or dies because of some internet comment it won't last anyway.

Edit: as in, what sustains it is the actual moral implications of a non-vegan lifestyle. I was convinced to go vegan by internet comments like this.

[-] prettybunnys@sh.itjust.works 43 points 2 months ago

See here’s what’s really really funny, people over and over again say “man if the vegan people who were trying to convince me could just not be gigantic assholes about it then maybe it would be easier to join their community”

And then you come along and are a gigantic asshole about it and prove the entire point.

Super solid representation, 5/7, perfection.

[-] mathemachristian@lemm.ee 14 points 2 months ago

If you need people to be nice to you to convince you, you care more about appearances than the argument. If people being rude stops you from acting on something you actually believe in you won't last a month as a vegan.

Going vegan means changing your habits, giving up a lot of your treats with nothing in return. You will be the weird one at christmas that needs "special" catering, people have to choose restaurants based on your habits and you will be the butt of a lot of jokes simply because you care about animals not being enslaved. If you need people to be nice to you, and applaud you and make you feel all warm and fuzzy to keep that going you won't last.

The first lesson every vegan needs to learn is: there are no rewards and no one will compliment you. You are doing this out of your own conviction and not for anyone else.

[-] benignintervention@lemmy.world 34 points 2 months ago

This is precisely the circlejerking mentioned in the meme. Whether true or not, the community presents itself as unwelcoming and self-aggrandizing. These are not traits that easily convince people to listen to the cause.

[-] mathemachristian@lemm.ee 6 points 2 months ago

There's nothing to listen to, either you believe animal ag is horrendous and unethical and act on it or you don't. That's it. No pretty pleases are going to convince someone they have to give up their beloved steak and cheese for nothing in return.

[-] benignintervention@lemmy.world 22 points 2 months ago

Then why are you trying so hard to explain yourself?

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[-] Aphelion@lemm.ee 10 points 2 months ago

Right, we get it, but if you tried attracting people to veganism with amazing recipes, and annecdotes of how much healthier you feel, people might come have a conversation and try making some vegan food. Instead these communities drive anyone non-vegan right out the door.

What's the expression? Honey will catch more flies?

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[-] prettybunnys@sh.itjust.works 18 points 2 months ago

Well this has been great, thanks for being the point.

[-] mathemachristian@lemm.ee 7 points 2 months ago

good talk nice representation, really convinced me to be nicer to corpsemunchers going forward.

[-] Mjpasta710@midwest.social 6 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago)

You're a breatharian? No corpse munching from you.

Are you pure enough that you feed the bacteria in your body without suffering?

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[-] commie@lemmy.dbzer0.com 8 points 2 months ago

Going vegan means changing your habits, giving up a lot of your treats with nothing in return. You will be the weird one at christmas that needs “special” catering, people have to choose restaurants based on your habits and you will be the butt of a lot of jokes simply because you care about animals not being enslaved. If you need people to be nice to you, and applaud you and make you feel all warm and fuzzy to keep that going you won’t last.

this should be on a billboard.

[-] davepleasebehave@lemmy.world 6 points 2 months ago

thing is, it's a philosophy of empathy and compassion. you don't really join a.commmunity. there are no V cards I'm afraid.

[-] prettybunnys@sh.itjust.works 8 points 2 months ago

This discussion is literally about the vegan community here on Lemmy

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[-] IzzyJ@lemmy.world 6 points 2 months ago

If belligerent internet comments actually convinced you to change your diet in such an inconvenient manner for no reward but moral superiority, you are not like the people you're trying to convince. Abusers and cults love bomb because its more effective on a random sample of people

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[-] davepleasebehave@lemmy.world 10 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago)

I was going to stop torturing animals, but some mean vegan said some words that hurt my feelings.

So now I'm going to eat two burgers!

chortle!

[-] IzzyJ@lemmy.world 5 points 2 months ago

I think I will actually do this now just to prove you wrong

[-] davepleasebehave@lemmy.world 5 points 2 months ago
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[-] mogoh@lemmy.ml 27 points 2 months ago

@Stovetop did not say nor implied that he/she is not vegan, because of the community.

[-] mathemachristian@lemm.ee 13 points 2 months ago

I probably should be vegan ... But ... I would never want to participate in a vegan community.

Seems pretty clear to me.

[-] Skua@kbin.earth 32 points 2 months ago

You can take part in something without taking part in the community about that thing, though. I play guitar a lot, but I don't frequent any guitar-based communities

[-] mathemachristian@lemm.ee 9 points 2 months ago

I'm fully aware, but "I'm not going vegan because they're so annoying" is a pretty common excuse.

[-] DampSquid@feddit.uk 28 points 2 months ago

It is a common excuse. And yet you're still being really annoying.

[-] PeriodicallyPedantic@lemmy.ca 19 points 2 months ago

Take the L dude.

Not only is that clearly not the reason in this case, of what you say is true (and I believe it considering your behavior) that's a pretty damning indictment about your collective personalities.

Youre blaming OTHERS for leaving your cause because YOU'RE impossible to put up with. Pathetic. The literal definition of that meme where the dude puts the stick into his bike spokes and then cries about it.

If you hate non-vegans so much then stop talking to them. Simple as.

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[-] zalgotext@sh.itjust.works 11 points 2 months ago

Yeah that isn't what they said though

[-] Passerby6497@lemmy.world 21 points 2 months ago

Then you need to go back to school for reading comprehension, because being a vegan and participating in a community about veganism are not the same thing, not even remotely close.

[-] mathemachristian@lemm.ee 5 points 2 months ago

and yet that seems to be the stated reason...

[-] Passerby6497@lemmy.world 20 points 2 months ago

Only because you're inferring a lot from a couple comments. You don't know why they aren't vegan (which could be for any number of reasons), the only thing you know, and are basing your entire assumptions on, is that they don't want to hang out in spaces full of insufferable vegans.

[-] Aurenkin@sh.itjust.works 19 points 2 months ago

Only if you have poor reading comprehension.

[-] ngwoo@lemmy.world 23 points 2 months ago

so you become a pariah if you don't properly adhere to 100% of the community consensus behaviors.

You don't pocket mulch?!

[-] prettybunnys@sh.itjust.works 16 points 2 months ago

I’m a level 5

[-] ShinkanTrain@lemmy.ml 13 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago)

Just don't interact with communities you dislike. It's a pretty bad excuse to blame other people for your decisions.

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