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The problem with a two party system is that it polarizes the grey areas where a lot of people don't have friendship or family ending feelings. When people subscribe whole heartedly to party mindsets they gain friends in that group but wall themselves off from others.
Sad to see that basic human rights are party mindsets still.
Disingenuous. You want to talk human rights? How about Democratic support for Israel?
But I would only bring that into conversation when someone's being disingenuous, because.. Oh, yes. It's disingenuous.
The worst part is, the Republican party is having a massive leadership crisis, and rather than dating things like "your leaders are fucking you over", dems seem to think it's a great idea to "shame" the Republicans - i.e., insult them for their identity - and alienaten them.
I am really starting to feel that Democrats don't care how anyone votes, as long as they can get their moral superiority rocks off without having to actually dip their toes into nuanced (and actually moral) reasoning. Like, there's so much fear, that you can't help but create the situations you fear worst.
Yea I speak out against the leadership supporting Israel, what's your point. I see tons of Republicans supporting the genocide wholeheartedly and loving how much their leadership spews hate toward me and my people and my friends for just existing.
It isn't a leadership crisis, they know exactly who they have and WANT exactly who they have. I don't know how else I can try and help them understand in good faith when they constantly spit at us. Look at project 2025 as the most recent example, they deserve to be shamed if they still call themselves what they do after seeing that. There's only so much I can do and so much I can take from them. I'm probably gonna trigger you for saying this but we didn't talk Hitler down in good faith. We didn't break slavery with talks and communication, we didn't bring the lgbt community that I belong to into the mainstream and out of the closet by asking nicely and convincing people with words alone. Ghandi didn't liberate India because of his nonviolence, it was thanks to like minded but violent groups showing force that ghandis message was listened too. The black panthers had to go out and show force for mlks talks to matter.
The 'fear' I have isn't self created, it's one I've experienced for just existing from very specific people who support a very specific ideology.
Yeah.. It really doesn't matter where it came from. The fear and the hate get in the way, and cause recursion.
That's not to say violence isn't necessary sometimes. It is. But there mentality with which you approach it has massive effect.
This is when people make their political views part of their identity. If the party does something that you don't agree with you are faced with two choices (sub-consciously); either you change your views to match the party, or you invalidate part of your identity. Depending on how big a part of your identity you have subsumed to the party; the harder it is to break that part of your identity.
It is always a worrying sign when someone says "I am a "; rather than saying "I support ". Support can easily be modified and revoked, your identity is not so easy to change.
Solid.
That is true. But I think in today’s political climate, it is fair to conflate people’s political affiliation with the extremes of the party. Like “fiscally responsible republicans”, you can’t run away from the other bigoted policies of republicans. Same with democrats and things like immigration and supplying arms to Israel.
It’s a hard landscape to navigate, now probably more than ever.
True, but that goes both ways, what with the casual support of genocide.
If anything, people should be looking at their parties, and either vacating or getting involved to make change, depending on how salvageable they think it is.
That's why Europe is better
Europe has it’s own problems. Anti-muslim bigotry is rampant in many countries, as is anti-immigrant and refuge sentiment.
And England has made itself the home of transphobia thanks to a certain misogynistic, racist, and homophobic/transphobic children’s author who everyone there seems to take seriously.
America has own problems too. And some countries can destabilize because of immigrants. Poland for example
Absolutely. I think most of this thread is about the many problems America has.
Doesn’t mean Europe is any better. Every country has their bigots.