[-] wander 3 points 2 years ago

Fair point, ty that is what is hard is hrt tends to be super specific per person, and then pcos is similar so was worried , but just finding good provider then sounds important

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submitted 2 years ago by wander to c/ftm

Hii I'm nonbinary but I do want to look more masc. But I recently found out I have PCOS (Its not 100% confirmed by my PCP still waiting to see gynecologist for more treatment + confirming for sure).

What I was wondering is does anyone else have experience doing T (I probably want to mircodose) with PCOS? I'm asking because I'm worried that now its not a possibility at all for me with how messed up my hormones have been and that once I get them stable doing T would mess with it all too much, and wanted to see if anyone has any ideas?

[-] wander 5 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago)

They were "supportive" but when it comes to actual support they avoid it. When I mentioned ace and aro they dismissed it saying I'll grow out of it. Been told my whole life we will love you whoever you love and whoever you are. I've had two relationships in secret :/ when I came out as non-binary it was forced and wasn't meant to happen. Don't remember what but they misgender me because "it's too hard" to switch between they/them at the house and she/her with extended family -_- as if I don't do that constantly. That and actively making fun of my name. They constantly talk about how queer rights matter but won't actually support their queer kid. I'm so ready to move out. It's bizarre I don't get it

[-] wander 6 points 2 years ago

Love the flexibility tbh. If I want to switch manufacturers my OS is the same Also much cheaper + I just love the app selection and the ability to put my own apps on here.

iOS is too restrictive for me and too expensive tbh. The ability to switch default apps is amazing. That said this is just for me tbh

[-] wander 4 points 2 years ago

Caveot being the loading screens and loading mini games are very non-sensical. When will the devs patch this smh

[-] wander 3 points 2 years ago

Ok ty, I'll let them know when I see it. Ty for bearing with me since sinny new to Lemmy :D

[-] wander 4 points 2 years ago

This seems dumb, but I am having the inverse issue on some communities. I can see undetermined languages fine, but English comments or posts aren't showing up for me even with both selected, any ideas from anyone. I had to have picked something wrong but I'm not sure

[-] wander 3 points 2 years ago

They better or else they aren't true natives. Those fur babies are just as much Colorado Natives as we are, they deserve to experience Casa Bonita and enlightenment

[-] wander 3 points 2 years ago

This is stupid lol but I hope someone makes a circlejerk. Not a Denver person (still in CO) but I enjoy reading here, + you all tend to post state news more often seriously is helpful

[-] wander 6 points 2 years ago

Its so frustrating finding out about a symptom I'm struggling with, and I try to look it up and its all aimed at kids. Even if its all targeted at kids, those kids will grow up and become adults, and still have the same issues and I don't understand why.

I think you're right with the whole grow out of it thing. It fundamentally won't for any of my ND stuff, I will just get better over time at managing, but its hard to do that when there's no support. It's like the phrase "stop making autism your whole personality", no I cannot do that because fundamentally it affects everything.

TLDR: I agree and I hate how resources are aimed at NTs despite the fact that we are autonomous adults, and even then kids need to feel like you understand and aren't just talking at them.

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Here's my boy (lemmy.blahaj.zone)
submitted 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago) by wander to c/cats

His name is Tux, I love him so much. 10/10 would recommend cats

[-] wander 3 points 2 years ago

Damn I would have loved to see that lol. Then again yeah hard to find info. Would be interesting to run surveys since seems like next best way. Like how many queer people know about blahaj and how many have one, and so forth

[-] wander 16 points 2 years ago

I have felt so much safer here and comfortable. I think staying here has been best, both because based url, but also I love having a queer focused space. I feel much less exposed. I know some people might come in, but having a no transphobia policy feels so much better considering the amount of causal transphobia I used to see in some of my communities even if they were meant to be "Safe". I also love the discussions here and so far feels so much less cliquish and open

[-] wander 2 points 2 years ago

This sounds like me so much. I was one of those kids who loved reading and was reading way above my level but couldn't write for shit. Same with the analog vs digital, doesn't matter how much I practice it still takes me a solid 30 seconds to do all the "math" in my head to read analog unless I use it regularly. I swear the more I hear from other neurodivergents, the more I go, wait a second...

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