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I don't know if I should tell the girl I'm seeing this... (thelemmy.club)
submitted 4 days ago by throwaway306@thelemmy.club to c/goodoffmychest@lemmy.world
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Hi, so I'll call the girl "Alice". Alice is this really cool girl I'm seeing. Wonderful, really. She'll be my girlfriend once we go on a few more dates. However, I don't know if I should let her know my true self. I am secretly into claymation yaoi between the characters of Wallace and Gromit, Flushed Away, etc.

Like, come on! Wallace and Victor Quartermaine is so cute. Victor Quartermaine and the Vicar!? Spike and Whitey!? Spike and Ladykiller!? And don't get me started on Dr. Fry and Reginald Smith and Mr. Tweedy from Chicken Run!

It's embarrassing, and I'm afraid the girl I'm seeing will think I'm weird, but she'll love me no matter what if she's the one, right?

what's your favorite character's favorite sex position in your opinion? by throwaway306 in c/asklemmy@lemmy.ml
can "females" be seen as transphobic? by throwaway306 in c/tooafraidtoask@lemmy.ml
[-] throwaway306@thelemmy.club 1 points 1 month ago

Thanks, I meant more like how people say describing women as "females" is icky or those who are like "YOU DARN FEMALES!!"

can "females" be seen as transphobic? by throwaway306 in c/tooafraidtoask@lemmy.ml
[-] throwaway306@thelemmy.club 2 points 1 month ago

Thanks so much, I meant more like those people who are like "those dang females!"

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can "females" be seen as transphobic? (thelemmy.club)
submitted 1 month ago by throwaway306@thelemmy.club to c/tooafraidtoask@lemmy.ml
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I know that "females" is seen as icky when describing women or girls, but since not all women were born female and not all born females are women, would that make addressing them as such transphobic?

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[-] throwaway306@thelemmy.club 2 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago)

Oh okay, thank you so much. He did explain and I listened, I just automatically got scared. I am going to therapy, thanks. I understand better :)

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[-] throwaway306@thelemmy.club 1 points 1 month ago

Thank you so much :)

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[-] throwaway306@thelemmy.club 1 points 1 month ago

I get it. I didn't mind when he got angry, but he would get snarky or not take me seriously too, and that's what made me sad even if he was mad. Plus, I calmed down and I would acknowledge he wasn't mad at me but it still rattled me, which I'm working on. I don't mind people who get angry, we all do, just not ones who can't take me seriously.

OF alternative fediverse? by throwaway306 in c/fediverse@lemmy.world
OF alternative fediverse? by throwaway306 in c/fediverse@lemmy.world
OF alternative fediverse? by throwaway306 in c/fediverse@lemmy.world

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