[-] katja 11 points 10 hours ago

As a vixen I'd prefer a small rodent, but men are universally clueless it seems.

[-] katja 17 points 2 days ago

Maybe he shouldn't be so preoccupied with being all hot and glamorous and look what he's doing instead. Won't be much of a harvest just throwing the seeds in the thicket like that.

[-] katja 7 points 2 days ago

Get out of my head

[-] katja 13 points 5 days ago

That honestly took me over 6 months. I tried a number of names on for size, but none felt quite right. The ones that felt right were in use by close family or friends. The one I really wanted is used by both my ex-wifes, so that would've been weird for the kids even if they're not kids anymore.

It was much easier picking out names for the kids actually. Otherwise I followed the advice I got to take a name that is sorta common in my age group so I went through all the lists multiple times until I decided. I now officially have a girl's name, even if I'm nowhere near passing. It isn't as bad in my country as in many others and I must say it went a lot better than I expected, but I'm still proud of myself. 😊

[-] katja 84 points 1 month ago

I guarantee that sign is there because of a previous incident.

[-] katja 58 points 6 months ago

This shit ain't nothing to me, man.

[-] katja 77 points 9 months ago

If they agree to, sure.

[-] katja 199 points 9 months ago

Eh, close enough.

[-] katja 32 points 9 months ago

His whole look is very not butch. That beard is very well groomed and his hair is immaculate. His skin also looks very cared for. I do believe his dear papa may have been a lumberjack.

Nothing wrong with that of course, but I think he would be a lot happier if he just embraced it, poor thing.

[-] katja 110 points 11 months ago

The funny thing is that the "extra strength" placebos likely have a better chance of working. The more elaborate and involved the placebo is, the greater the chance of it actually working even if you know it is a placebo. Our minds are weird. As always, I'm too lazy to look up the actual study so I don't know if it was a quality study or not.

[-] katja 41 points 1 year ago

This is known. Until key distribution is solved one time Cryptos remain unpractical for everyday use.

[-] katja 50 points 1 year ago

The thing is, they want us depressed. Depressed peons doesn't want to fight injustices, they just hide under the covers and doomscroll the internet. We aren't built to handle the massive amount of info we are constantly force fed through all available channels. Our lizard brains are not good at prioritizing between threats and media and astroturfing are constantly overstating the importance of the current threat. There are SO many threats and issues to choose from that it seems insurmountable. Where to even start? If you are the kind of person that cares and have a bit of empathy it can be too much to handle.

I don't have a fits-all solution to combat care-fatigue, I really don't. That said, it might help to list the shit that needs dealing with that are important to you. Prioritize engagement from that list. How much effort and/or money can you spend? Where can it have the most effect? Put it there and do something. Anything. Just try to be a force for good in this fucked-up world. Helping others will lessen the despair, it really will. Again - you can't help everyone, but you can help someone. Let that be enough.

Also - eat the rich, it's all their fault. Don't let them tell you otherwise.

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