[-] gid@piefed.blahaj.zone 1 points 1 day ago

I understand. I hope you're able to find some activities to help settle that high energy sadness. I can relate to that feeling but the things that work for me when I'm in that state tend to be the opposite to high activity and mental focus: eg. practicing mindfulness, taking myself for a slow walk in nature, proverbially touching grass.

[-] gid@piefed.blahaj.zone 2 points 2 days ago

A few people have suggested drumming, which I'd also recommend.

Have you ever been dancing? One of my biggest pressure relief mechanisms is going to a music venue and just... dancing to bands or a DJ. It brings me back into my body, it's a great physical workout, and it also keeps me mentally engaged.

I understand this isn't something you can do immediately if you're feeling frustrated, but I feel it can help with longer-term benefits towards emotional regulation.

[-] gid@piefed.blahaj.zone 4 points 2 days ago

He is especially rotund. I love him.

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European robin (piefed.cdn.blahaj.zone)
submitted 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago) by gid@piefed.blahaj.zone to c/birding@lemmy.world

Taken today, in the Forest of Dean in the UK. Not the greatest photo, but it makes me very happy because the robin came up really close and I got to spend 5 minutes feeding it.

[-] gid@piefed.blahaj.zone 1 points 3 days ago

Thank you for this video! that was so much fun to watch (and I want to try it out too!)

[-] gid@piefed.blahaj.zone 11 points 4 days ago

Thanks for pointing out the one exceptional case where women didn't comprise the majority of people murdered. That really helps!

🙄

[-] gid@piefed.blahaj.zone 7 points 6 days ago

Same, I still love Beaker to this day.

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Queercore (piefed.blahaj.zone)

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Queercore music

[-] gid@piefed.blahaj.zone 2 points 1 week ago

Haha I've also seen this captioned as:

Corvids

Crow Raven
Bluejay Magpie

[-] gid@piefed.blahaj.zone 7 points 1 week ago

I'd love to know just how Hate Dept saw this playing out. Like they're too popular to get dropped? 🤦🏻

What a ridiculous self-own.

[-] gid@piefed.blahaj.zone 26 points 1 week ago

They don't care about your feelings.

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Imagine a friend asked you for a playlist of your 5 favourite tracks to introduce them to industrial/darkwave/goth/ebm/etc. Which ones would you choose? They don't have to be genre-defining or from foundational bands, just ones you enjoy the most.

These would be mine:

Skinny Puppy - Assimilate
Fields of the Nephilim - The Watchman
Wumpscut - Totmacher
Faith and the Muse - Annwyn, Beneath the Waves
Youth Code - For I am Cursed

What are yours?

[-] gid@piefed.blahaj.zone 3 points 1 week ago

That sounds like a reasonable request.

If you're open to advice, I'd suggest exploring communicating and unpacking needs with your partner. In the example you've given, you've shared with her that you need things written down in order to better remember a task. Her reply "you should just be able to remember" is unhelpful on it's surface, but it's possible that behind that is a need that's being unmet. Perhaps she feels she's not being listened to? it's worth exploring this with her.

[-] gid@piefed.blahaj.zone 2 points 1 week ago

It will depend entirely on the accommodations you are asking of them. What seems unreasonable to them may feel reasonable to you, and the same the other way around.

More details would definitely be useful here.

[-] gid@piefed.blahaj.zone 4 points 2 weeks ago

I didn't know about Sandrider before this compilation was announced, but I'm definitely gonna check out their discography now. The March of the Pigs cover goes hard.

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submitted 2 weeks ago by gid@piefed.blahaj.zone to c/music@beehaw.org

Redux Records do great covers albums where they get a plethora of great noise/doom/stoner/sludge bands to cover classic albums, and they've just announced the next one in their series will be The Downward Spiral. There will also be a companion Best of Nine Inch Nails (Redux) album alongside it.

I can't wait for this to come out.

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submitted 2 weeks ago by gid@piefed.blahaj.zone to c/music@lemmy.world

Redux Records do great covers albums where they get a plethora of great noise/doom/stoner/sludge bands to cover classic albums, and they've just announced the next one in their series will be The Downward Spiral. There will also be a companion Best of Nine Inch Nails (Redux) album alongside it.

I can't wait for this to come out.

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Redux Records do great covers albums where they get a plethora of great noise/doom/stoner/sludge bands to cover classic albums, and they've just announced the next one in their series will be The Downward Spiral. There will also be a companion Best of Nine Inch Nails (Redux) album alongside it.

I can't wait for this to come out.

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submitted 2 weeks ago by gid@piefed.blahaj.zone to c/nin@lemmy.world

Redux Records do great covers albums where they get a plethora of great noise/doom/stoner/sludge bands to cover classic albums, and they've just announced the next one in their series will be The Downward Spiral. There will also be a companion Best of Nine Inch Nails (Redux) album alongside it.

I can't wait for this to come out.

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Alas - goth webcomic (piefed.cdn.blahaj.zone)

Anyone here remember Alas? I used to read this almost religiously in the early 2000s.

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