plasma wayland just doesn't work with orca and x11 uses 7× your system resources

no it's not lmao none of the mentioned mscs are merged (maybe except for one?)

My current instance has ~160 users, and it's okay. I once used a friend's instance, where I was the 2nd user. It was very bad. That might in part be the fact that it was running Conduwuit though.

Mfw state resets (problem in server) is actually just because of the users

How? A few weeks back I had to deal with getting spammed with invites to CSAM rooms. I've also been harassed many times on it. And not to mention lack of moderation tools and state issues.

erm i'm a woman and i don't like masculinity

I'm so glad that I don't use Mastodon anymore, it's a horrible experience

Maybe they could try the Fediverse, but not Mastodon preferably (need a good first impression!)