[-] bsit@sopuli.xyz 5 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

Reasons vary between people. It's not important. If you want to know, ask the people in question.

Don't think everyone SHOULD be doing it like you. If you feel like being upbeat, be upbeat. ACCEPT not everyone is but they don't get to force their view on you either.

It's naive to think one way is more "right" than the other.

[-] bsit@sopuli.xyz 1 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago)

That's one of the many issues with expecting a collective resolution. Question is: why do people feel they need to be able to discuss issues way beyond their understanding and personal experience online with others who also don't know much about it? If actually done well, moderation is a full time job but nobody is interested in paying a bunch of online jannies to clean their space.

That's why I favor individual responsibility, and opting out of the possibility of being exposed to (or perpetuating) misinformation. Maybe in the future we can have forums for verified experts of a field, where regular people can have discussions with them and ask questions etc. But these would be moderated places where you do need to bring proof and sound arguments, not emotionally charged headlines.

The stories and information posted on social media are artistic works of fiction and falsehood. Only a fool would take anything posted as fact.

[-] bsit@sopuli.xyz 4 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago)

If we want to go the route of the Responsibility of the Individual: Resolve to not get your political etc. news from social media. Draw a line for yourself: cool to get gaming news from random influencers online? Probably. News about global events? At this point might be better for most people's mental health to ignore them and focus more locally. However, read how to read a book, make your best effort at finding a reputable news organization and check those for news if you must have them. On same vein, if you don't read at least some article about an event being discussed on social media, DON'T COMMENT. Don't engage with that post. If it really grabs at you, go find an article about it from a trusted source, and depending on how much it animates you, try to get a bigger picture of the event. Assume that vast majority of ALL CONTENT online is currently incentivized to engage you - to capture your attention, which is actually the most valuable asset you have. Where you put your attention will define how you feel about your life. It's highly advicable to put it where you feel love.

Responsibility of the Collective: Moving in hierarchies, we can start demanding that social media moderators (or whatever passes for those in any given site) prevent misinformation as much as possible. Try to only join communities that have mods that do this. Failing that, demand social media platforms prevent misinformation. Failing that, we can demand the government does more to prevent misinformation. All of those solutions have significant issues, one of them being they are all very incentivized to capture the attenttion of as many people as possible. Doesn't matter what the exact motivation is - it could be a geneinly good one. A news organization uses social media tactics to get the views so that their actually very factual and dilligently compiled articles get the spread. Or, they could be looking to drive their political agenda - which they necessarily do anyway because desire to be factual and as neutral as possible is a stance as well. One that may run afoul of the interests of some government that doesn't value freedom of press - which is very dangerous and you need to think hard for yourself how you feel about the idea of the government limiting what kind of information you can access. For the purposes of making this shorter, you can regard massive social media platforms as virtual governments too. In fact, it would be a good idea in general.

The thing with misinformation is that many people who talk about it subtly think that they are above it themselves. They're thinking that they know they're not subject to propaganda and manipulation but it's the other poor fools that need to be protected from it. It's the Qanon and Antivaxxers. But you know better, you know how to dig deeper into massively complicated global topics and find out what the true and right opinion about them is. You can't. Not even if we weren't in the middle of multiple fucking information wars. You'd do well to focus on what you can know for sure, in your own experience. If you don't like the idea of individual responsibility though, because "most people aren't going to do it" - your best bet at getting a collective response is a group of individuals coming together under the same ideal. It'll happen sooner or later anyway and there's going to be plenty of suffering before either way.

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All of this { This is true on every level. The smallest things in this body are in the process of something. My body is in the process of burning energy at the very least. My mind is in the process of choosing the right words to symbolize my direct, lived experience. This week is processing. I am part of what life is processing. This is what life in process looks like. I am that, not I. }

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submitted 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago) by bsit@sopuli.xyz to c/spirituality@beehaw.org

You don't need to have an interest in spirituality to awaken but a sufficient amount of surrender is required. If you try to surrender, you can't. If your mind is telling you to do something because it believes it'll get it some state it thinks it needs, tell the mind to ignore itself and watch it chase it's tail.

You don't need to heal every trauma but IF the people that BRING VALUE (whatever that means to you) to your life keep saying there's a problem, maybe it would be in your best interest to listen and see if you can't address it. You better listen in deep to find out what you value. What really gives access to that feeling of not wanting anything? Or does your mind always need a problem to solve? What if you just watch the mind chase it's tail?

Catch and release.

[-] bsit@sopuli.xyz 1 points 1 month ago

(Even if it's the temple of Dionysus, what if every drink was regarded as a divine offering instead of just something to dull oneself with)

[-] bsit@sopuli.xyz 1 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago)

The two are inseparable and intertwined. It's missing that point that keeps causing so much trouble. If you are reading this, there IS a body that has been given to your care.

The body is the temple. There's very good reasons to why ancient tantra practitioners came up with that teaching. Everything that goes into the body is an offering to that which matters most. Every movement is a celebration of it. It is that orientation to the body that makes spirituality more centered to my life, not something I compartmentalize to "do" at 8am on my cushion.

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submitted 1 month ago by bsit@sopuli.xyz to c/spirituality@beehaw.org

We've become so used to just roughly using something until it breaks and then just buying a new one. If there's a hole in the sock, into the trash it goes. We don't look at the laundry label. We don't fix things when they break. And we treat the body the same way. We take it to the doctor and get some pills to compensate for all the ways we don't care for it. We can't buy a new one. I frequently take pain pills to cover up the pain in my knees that could go away if I used my knees more. I don't numb the pain in my back; I want it to remind me to move. I will eventually need some heart medication to bandaid my desire for salty and fatty food.

However I am more aware of my body. If I feel my resting heart rate is starting to creep up, I better start doing more cardio. Never sit down to put on socks, balance instead. Get on the floor and get up. Focusing on being present with the body and I suddenly don't feel like eating too much. I feel more alive. Stopping. Checking in with myself. What are the needs of the body? Suppose I want to save the world. Suppose I want to feed my kid. Suppose I want to sit down for a meditation. How to do any of that if my body is broken?

It's not about a "should". It's not about being more virtuous. It's just moving the priority closer to the foundation of one's life. Why would you try to build a life on uncertainties. Why not find out what is most true, care for what is true, and then expand out. Take care of what has been given to your care.

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submitted 1 month ago by bsit@sopuli.xyz to c/spirituality@beehaw.org

It's weird how much the mind resists this. "No but I have to think about my work/family/friends thing..." No, what if you really considered paying attention to your present moment the most important thing. "But I have to eat" yeah, you don't have to be stationary, it's just that the most important thing is paying attention to your current experience. And so on.

"well nobody would get anything done" we currently have a lot of people getting a lot done all around the world, and most people seem to be pretty unhappy with the world. Maybe if more people prioritize paying attention to the very center of their being as it is before thought, we wouldn't have so many people getting swayed by fear and shallow dopamine rushes.

i mean failure to do this is perfect too but it certainly makes me experience less Suffering when I can keep it up.

bsit

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