I think I need to go lie down after reading that. Your family is lucky to have someone like you. Make sure to get some time in for yourself.

You may hang your gray Columbia jacket over there.

I pinned a post about it on !dull_mens_club@lemmy.world tl;dr: Decentralizing in order to keep things dull going forward.

I highly reccommend getting an electric kettle.

I once jumped on an oportunity for free dirt. I have a small utility trailer that can handle 1,000 lbs. I totally underestimated the volume to weight ratio of dirt and the amount of time it takes to shovel dirt into a trailer. I think I took 6 trips back and forth over several days, each trip took almost an hour of shoveling.