cross-posted from: https://lemmy.world/post/7241334

谢谢

cross-posted from: https://lemmy.world/post/6318043

Hi Veronica. Why won't you talk with me? Let's work this out here and now. It's okay to say something. It's all anonymous. Use a VPN if you must. I really hope to hear from you!

To all the people I know that have lost respect of themselves and others:

It's funny how I'm criticized for being angry and nasty by folks on reddit. Do you see where the comments are coming from? They are coming from criminals and a criminal that hired them. The criminal that hired them has no regard for safety of children. She says let's take a chance and throw fate up to the wind in order to destroy this person, because of what he is and what he does or my perception of what he's done to me. It's does not matter that I am the trigger for what he does. As long as I can destroy him, my life will be complete.

You treat each other like shit, and sometimes you treat your own family like garbage. You take better care of your dogs. Then you insult and and degrade with your passive aggressive attitude. You wield manipulation as thought it was a dagger. There is no mankind or civility or humanity in you vocabulary. There is no honor or loyalty. It's just you and your selfish behaviours. My anger is directed at your lack of civility towards your family, your neighbor, your lover. It disgusts me and makes me want to hide from the stench.

The final time our paths crossed, it was a summer night, and a damp mist hung in the air, causing the ground to be wet and slippery. As I stood in front of my apartment, I nearly slipped headfirst on the stairs, my heart weighed down by the pain of what had transpired. I had fled from our meeting place, unable to endure the emotions any longer. I couldn't fathom why you were there that night, torn between feelings for two individuals.

Despite the hardships we faced, I learned of his passing and want to express my condolences. I know he left behind three children, and I hope they find strength during this difficult time. As for our past, I remember the feelings of guilt and resentment that once consumed us. However, I eventually found it in my heart to forgive both of you and hold you in high regard.

During our divorce and custody battle, my ex-wife resorted to questionable tactics, including calling your restaurant to gather information about me. I was touched to hear that you and J stood firmly against providing any harmful details, offering only the best things to say about me. Your support meant the world to me, and I am still grateful for your actions to this day. It was a testament to your integrity and loyalty, and I couldn't have been prouder of both of you. Thank you for being there for me in those challenging times.

My first ex-wife, you were truly remarkable with your photographic memory and ability to excel in every subject with just a single hour of study. Your culinary skills were unmatched, and you always prepared my favorite dishes with love. Despite your brilliance, you asked for very little and never made any demands.

Your dedication to helping children with learning disabilities was truly honorable, and your intelligence played a crucial role in helping me pass the toughest test I had ever faced. Your compassion and empathy were unmatched, and I haven't encountered anyone quite like you in decades.

While I wish I could have done better to prevent our relationship from ending, I will always cherish the wonderful memories you gave me during our 12 years together. Thank you for being a significant part of my life and for the love and joy you brought into it.