[-] Rappe@sopuli.xyz 17 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago)

Thanks, it was about 20 years ago, and exactly as you said, good riddance.

Funnily enough, my grandfather who fought in the winter war supported me. Quote: "War is not a place for anyone. It is horrifying."

[-] Rappe@sopuli.xyz 16 points 1 month ago

Finland. My own father came very close to disowning me for not going to the army. He did call me colourful slurs for years, before I cut ties.

[-] Rappe@sopuli.xyz 18 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago)

We have it, it sucks. Especially in it's current form, it's discriminatory and archaic. You basically have 4 choices: go to the army, do civil service (pesudo-slave labour essentially), go to jail (usually house arrest) or try to get out of it by faking a mental illness.

I did civil service, and nobody told me of the stigma that follows not going to the army; especially conservative people will treat you like a second class citizen, a coward, lazy, hippie or a traitor. It's even worse if you decide to protest and go to jail instead of serving. On top of that, there's not a lot of the service places nowadays, it cannot be a for profit company, and has to be "useful to the community" sort of thing. Most people go to schools, unemployment centers or old folk's homes. The work I did for 364 days was in a school, and had nothing to do with my studies or interests, nor did it teach me any skills. I was mostly bored out of my mind.

Being stuck in the army/service also delays your studies, and can make it harder for some people to continue studying afterwards due to the forced delay in between.

If you add in how it's incredibly discriminatory, that only males have to do it, it's voluntary for females, and certain religious groups get a free pass, but I can't get a free pass because of my principals or morals. I believe some promising athletes can get a free pass as well, but don't quote me on that.

Basically, at least in it's current state, it's bad. With some fundamental changes and prioritizing the wishes/principals of the individual, I wouldn't have a problem with it. I'm not a fan of my individual choice being ignored with a threat of jailtime. An opt-out model I would be fine with, but I guess that kind of doesn't fit with your questions, as it's not exactly mandatory at that point.

There's a lot more to be said, but that covers most of my main opinions briefly.

[-] Rappe@sopuli.xyz 10 points 1 month ago

Sales, finance, middle management and one "prompt engineer".

[-] Rappe@sopuli.xyz 21 points 1 month ago

Mobile woes

[-] Rappe@sopuli.xyz 12 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago)

Pheromone vaporizators work wonders. Just make sure to pre-emptively set it up like 2 weeks prior. Not magic, but helps massively in my experience. Might help with your resident cat's anxiety long term, too.

I would not under any circumstances do the introduction of a new cat during a move or shortly after, as you said, it will just add to the stress of the resident cat and prolong the process needlessly.

On top of that, best way I have found is have the kitten in one room, and every day introduce the kitten's smell to the new cat. Smells are incredibly important for cats.

Take it slow, do short controlled "shows" for the resident cat, show the kitten far away, don't let it too close too quickly, that's when defense kicks in and it prolongs the process.

Overall, be patient, go slow, don't force interactions, pay close mind to body language. Majority of cats will get a long as long as the introduction is done properly, and on their terms. How long it takes is highly dependent on the individual cats and their tempers. From your post, it could be on the longer end of the spectrum.

Have a worst case scenario planned out before making any choices. If it seems like there's no way, you will have to accept that as well, and be ready to rehome the kitten.

This is a good video about the subject: https://youtu.be/tsYT7yIOdqQ Jackson Galaxy is a weird dude, but he does know cats.

[-] Rappe@sopuli.xyz 14 points 4 months ago

I mean, even if he did want to, he couldn't. Labour laws in my country are fortunately quite robust. I'm pretty sure my manager didn't score any extra points with him, though, that's for sure.

[-] Rappe@sopuli.xyz 15 points 4 months ago

I mean, has it's uses for sure, but the scope in which people are deploying these cookiecutter generalist LLMs and expecting bloody miracles is unrealistic. Plus, I like my privacy, AI's are kind of an antithesis of that. Environmental cost is way too high as well.

It's a tool, and it can be used successfully, but it's so inefficient that I can't justify it personally.

[-] Rappe@sopuli.xyz 14 points 5 months ago

Bonus pics!

[-] Rappe@sopuli.xyz 13 points 7 months ago* (last edited 7 months ago)

Cool stuff man, gonna contribute with some of my own extras. Same deal, DM me for key or email. Extra humble bundle games mostly. First come first serve.

~~Overcooked~~

Worms Rumble - Armageddon Weapon Skin Pack

Worms Rumble - Captain & Shark Double Pack

~~ENSLAVED™: Odyssey to the West™ Premium Edition~~

GET EVEN

~~Katamari Damacy Reroll~~

~~Pac-Man 256~~

~~RAD~~

Splendor: The Cities DLC

~~Uurnog Uurnlimited~~

~~The Legend of Heroes: Trails in the Sky~~

[-] Rappe@sopuli.xyz 12 points 8 months ago

That's what I thought as well, but after a brief clarification from EU, they meant they can work normally, but is worried about the scary message.

[-] Rappe@sopuli.xyz 13 points 9 months ago

Come on, can't ask this kind of question without giving us the rules.

Paradox free? Does the future change? Do I go as my current self or is age adjusted? Do I keep my current knowledge and memories and skills? Do I get to go back? Do I get multiple tries to get the optimal outcome?

So many variables with these kinds of hypotheticals, I can't give you any meaningful answer without general outlines of the rules. Can't play the game if I don't know the rules.

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