It's like that in most anime and even if you find something good there's a huge chance that they will force some scenes like that even if it doesn't fit. It's a real shame because anime doesn't need this trash to attract people, it accomplishes the opposite in fact.
Yes but to find them you need to go through a lot of shit which filters out people from watching anime at all which is understandable.
To people (not you) that actually think that this logic makes sense:
I don't really watch animes with lots of death but if you want something that will make you cry:
https://myanimelist.net/anime/33352/Violet_Evergarden
https://myanimelist.net/anime/35851/Sayonara_no_Asa_ni_Yakusoku_no_Hana_wo_Kazarou
https://myanimelist.net/anime/27775/Plastic_Memories
https://myanimelist.net/anime/36098/Kimi_no_Suizou_wo_Tabetai
https://myanimelist.net/anime/38000/Kimetsu_no_Yaiba
https://myanimelist.net/anime/9989/Ano_Hi_Mita_Hana_no_Namae_wo_Bokutachi_wa_Mada_Shiranai
https://myanimelist.net/anime/6547/Angel_Beats
Edit: Violet Evergarden is my top 1 favourite anime, I cried half of the time while watching it.
Thank you for your hard work.
It got like 800+ upvotes if I remember correctly but then as my title says my instance went down and the post got lost.