Smoulder is a great trad/doom band with a female vocalist. Savage Master is a really fun trad band with a female vocalist. Castle Rat is a cool new doom band with a female vocalist.

I care that he bothered to make a whole post about it yeah, but not that he's leaving

No actually, as it turns out I don't. Thanks for your concern though <3

That's not what a thought crime is, first of all. But yes, there are consequences to the words you say and you should be mindful of them.

Do you also think making racist comments about images of people online would cause zero harm? Because that's the equivalent except the issue here is misogyny.