I definitely agree that parents should do their best to not be a burden to their children, but in case some unplanned circumstance happens and my kids have the ability to help, I'd be extremely disappointed if they didn't. Love goes both ways imo.

I'd go a bit further and say that one is the natural consequence of the other tbh.

He's still dead. Sorry to inform.

Well, I didn't have to look far on my end.