If you're gonna edit your comments now to remove the insults towards me, you can go ahead /s

Either way stop talking to me

You're also free not to spam my post with personal attacks in multiple comments

you're right you're not good enough for him and you're not desirable enough

Continues saying bad things about me based off of a few comments

Considering you've never met the guy nor me, those are some very bold statements you're making. Yeah I'm not interested in this discussion, you can go bully someone else now under the guise of "helping" them

The mod didn't like it.

Honestly, I suspect it might also have something to do with the specific board and thread I would frequent. That kind of makes it all the more messed up. If I had known this would or could happen I would've just stopped going there. But now that I think about it, it's probably the reason I got permabanned, by some power tripping mod from there.

Well, I guess one of the things stopping me from that is that it took me 24 years just to meet a single person like that.

The other thing is that I wasn't good enough for him so why would I be good enough for someone else like him?

The third is that I'm older now, so I'm "less desirable" although idk if I ever was desirable based on my experiences. Either earth is actual hell or i am significantly defective in some way(s)

I'm not trying to be antagonistic when I say this, but I don't think it's his fault that he is shallow. He probably couldn't help the fact that he wasn't as attracted to me as he would have liked to be. I don't necessarily think that makes him a bad person, though I kind of agree he maybe shouldn't have dated me or led me on to the point that he did, if he knew from the start I was not what he was looking for.

I think he was just excited to finally have a gf, and to have met a girl he had a bunch in common with that he liked talking to. I think he definitely liked the validation and attention from it too.

I think maybe im being easy on his wrongdoings because of the nice things he did for me too. And they weren't super small things either. I don't know, but all I can say is I've met a lot of guys and I never felt like anyone understood me or even remotely cared about me like he did. Maybe I'm just unlikeable trash, because at this point that's my only explanation. Its not like I've rejected a bunch of good guys or anything.

Maybe his honesty was a way to absolve himself of the guilt he felt by leading me on, I'm not sure. But I feel like if either way he is going to date me, it's better to be honest about how he feels at least a little.

Honestly, that didn't offend me because I know I'm not that pretty, and he did warn me that he is generally shallow appearance-wise. So like nothing he said was wrong. And I do get why he would want someone prettier to be with "forever". It did make me a bit sad though that I couldn't be what he wanted.

I mean me neither but like that doesn't make him a bad person or anything

Disconnect between me and others? As I said others like him too so there's no disconnect there

He was just being honest and he didn't say it to hurt me he just told me how he was feeling

maybe, but the rules were never like this. I've tried searching the web about people being unfairly banned and I barely found anything. They're definitely changing things.

It's messed up to get banned for life without any warning, explanation or second chances. Literally how would anyone know the rules have changed unless they read them every day?

It's gonna be hard for people to find out though, because most search results on Google are reddit ones, and people who go on 4chan are much more likely to be banned from reddit. So that's why I wanted to post this here. I know I'm not the only one and I suspect alternative websites will only grow in the future.

Cause the name is hard to remember.. I was trying to yesterday and the closest I could get is megatron and megalodon