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Hey! 😋

So I'm super awkward, and anxious! (ADHD Autisic) And I'm really hoping I could get some help finding a casual way to ask someone out to a concert or dinner without creating the assumption that I'm paying for both tickets/meals.

Any ideas other then just bluntly asking to go Dutch?

[-] CorruptBuddha@lemmy.dbzer0.com 16 points 1 year ago

From what I've seen people use this as an argument for censorship. Personally I believe in proportional responses.

[-] CorruptBuddha@lemmy.dbzer0.com 17 points 1 year ago

Kid gloves for white people; violence for natives.

Umm... I'm not sure how to approach this, because I'm pretty sure people don't care about the facts and just want to push whatever political narrative, but here:

https://news.sky.com/story/amp/people-thought-we-were-scum-forgotten-legacy-of-british-children-sent-to-canada-12971791

Also man... The freedom convoy was removed, had their accounts frozen, officers that donated to the convoy were disciplined, and docked pay. At the time I compared it against a pipeline protest by native people, and they were both removed in equal time.

Remember Occupy Wallstreet? Go google Occupy Wallstreet Kettling, and tell me how "handled with kitty gloves" people are.

The thing I can't stand about all of this is Natives recieve tons of support, and recognition in Canada. Like dude. I'm not saying racism doesn't exist, and I'm not saying there isn't generational trauma, and other issues, but just as a matter of fact, in Canada under law Natives aren't given less, they're given more.

But fuck reality eh.

[-] CorruptBuddha@lemmy.dbzer0.com 12 points 1 year ago

Singling out straight white men.. so progressive!

[-] CorruptBuddha@lemmy.dbzer0.com 15 points 1 year ago

I picked up a sport this year. People are surprisingly friendly.

[-] CorruptBuddha@lemmy.dbzer0.com 17 points 1 year ago

I appreciate the fuck out of Hexbear. Over the past few years I've seen a massive ideological shift in a bunch of communities I use to enjoy. Like feminist communities shifted from egalitarian/humanist perspectives towards more bigioted attitudes, people stopped caring about confronting their own biases, and instead try to justify them, because "the patriarchy". I've encountered these people in real life. I once got in an argument with another nonbinary with them telling me "You need to understand the world sees you as a white male".

I see people getting called white supremace for calling out racism.

Sorry I know this is a ramble, still processing.

Anyways, now that I see the fingerprints of Marxism I can just call it out.

[-] CorruptBuddha@lemmy.dbzer0.com 20 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

me not knowing how to bring up bad news

[-] CorruptBuddha@lemmy.dbzer0.com 18 points 1 year ago

I get the impression Google is trying to transition Maps into a social media platform.

[-] CorruptBuddha@lemmy.dbzer0.com 59 points 1 year ago

My dad broke up with his girlfriend, and was telling me this plan about fucking with her disability benefits, because she had gone for plastic surgery or some shit. He found this out from stalking her call logs.

I remember just pacing back and forward in my apartment trying to reason with him on the phone. "Dad, you can't do this kind of stuff.."

I talked him down, told him I loved him, and will always love him.

I don't know if it was the next day, but the next time we spoke on the phone he went right back into the same mindset. I couldn't handle it. Sometime after the call I sent a pretty harsh message that I didn't want to be involved with him. Haven't spoken to him since.

[-] CorruptBuddha@lemmy.dbzer0.com 19 points 1 year ago

Oh I completely understand, that's why I made the responsible choice to sterilize myself.

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Fuck Some Parents (lemmy.dbzer0.com)
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Like holy fuck do you not hear your kid screaming? Do you not have consideration for other fucking people? Or are you just so fucking useless you have zero ability to parent your child? I'm assuming the latter.

Fuck people.

I'm chilling in a hotel hottub, and there's a kid in the pool just screaming, fucking just screaming on and off at the top of their lungs, the sound just echoing off all the tile, it's fucking horrible, holy fuck.

Ughh, just really needed to vent that. Thank you. And fucking thank god they just left.

Fuck I'm greatful I don't have kids.

-edit-

New group of kids started floating around the hot tub bumping into me 😑 Asked them to stop, and then had to speak to their parents about it.

[-] CorruptBuddha@lemmy.dbzer0.com 23 points 1 year ago

So I don't know or care enough to go trying to understand and quote books, but here's a shia forum full of people refering to age 9 sexual maturity for girls.

https://www.shiachat.com/forum/topic/235044362-what-is-the-exact-minimum-age-for-have-sex/

[-] CorruptBuddha@lemmy.dbzer0.com 11 points 1 year ago

While consummating marriage with Aisha is indefensible, it is also on bar with religions and historical realities.

Why call it indefensible, and then go onto defend it?

[-] CorruptBuddha@lemmy.dbzer0.com 33 points 1 year ago

Didn't the Prophet Muhammad like... fuck a 12 year old?

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